Monday, May 4, 2009

I am 17 (female) and really really like my 26(male) History teacher what should i do?

He is funny cute and really awesome He has a girlfriend (i have meet her) an shes nice but i really really really like him. I constantly stare at his pictures on facebok and have even had "sex dreams" involveing him and I! I have his number and really want to be with him. I get to spend alot of time one on one becuz I am the prez of the student gov. and he is the sponser. I really like him what should i do??

I am 17 (female) and really really like my 26(male) History teacher what should i do?
as long as you are his student, or, under 18, you risk getting this guy fired, or into prison,,let it go, until you are 18, and legal, and have thought about it. At the most, say, " when I am 18, at such a time, can we have a cup of coffee together?", and say it with smile,, and he will know what it means. You are playing with fire, and probably will get him burned badly!!
Reply:Oh Hun!! I know exactly what your talking about! those teachers can be really hot!!!!. trust me i actually LIKE going to math because my teacher is really cute!.. its a crush, and it can only be a crush. its illegal in more ways then one for him to have a relationship with you. You sound really mature and grown up, you are definately interested in older men (my boyfriend is 20 so i can relate) I know it hurts, i know you really really like him, but he is your teacher and lot older then you. i dont want your heart to be broken, but you will be in pain, you just have to move on sweety. I know alot about heartbreak to. But this is for the best, no sence in wasting so much time thinking on something that can never happen, and if he is flirting with you, its wrong. What would a 26 year old want with a 17 year old?. Hope you get through this all right, Best of luck to you!
Reply:if you really like him that much, the best thing you can do is to leave him alone.





if you entice him and it becomes known, he will go to jail, no questions.
Reply:wait until you 18 so he doesnt go to jail then give him a call .If he tells you he has a girlfriend then that will change your feelings for him real fast.But my sister inlaw fell in love with one of her teachers when she was in school and they are married now.It can happen but wait until your of age.
Reply:wat is wrong wit u dont be even attempt that ....... he could get arrested and u would b in alot of trouble
Reply:You are a child in his eyes and you will never be anything else to him. Let go of your feelings. Your love is unrequited.
Reply:WOW WOW Just stop right there!!! he is your teacher , has a girlfriend, he is to old, and after hearing so much talk about teachers having sexuall realtions with there students you know it's wrong! focus on school and someone different maybe you could talk to someone about all this and get you some help for it! It should not happen..................... not even a question and as far as him giving you your number its probably nothing you may think its something because of the feeling that you have for him But no leave it alone.............
Reply:Bottom line: wait until highschool is over. You cannot under any circumstances risk getting either you or him in trouble. It is especially unfair to do this to him, because he will go to jail if you pursue this. I understand your feelings must be very strong, but you need to gain control of them. I'm sure it will be hard, but I bet you can do it.
Reply:dont do that to yourself. Im always one to say **** what people think but that is risky!
Reply:You shouldn't get involved with this dude, it can lead to dire consequences.
Reply:Leave him along before you send him to jail and make him loose his job.
Reply:You should give it up, dear. What you need to realize is that if a 26 year old man could have any type of sexual notions about a 17 year old girl, then he is not the type of gentleman you should be involved with. I think you save this page, forget about it for a while, go to college, then open the file up again in a couple of years and you'll realize just how silly this all was. Good luck to you!
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Reply:Maybe ur confusing things. I think u misinterpret things because u realy like ur teacher and so think that when he looks at u, he wants u. Come on, he has a girfriend to him ur just a kid and if he gave u his phone number it was probably for in u ever needed help. I had teachers phone numbers too but it was for help. U need to find someone ur own age, someone will will accept u for who u r. My advice is don't mis-interpret things because ur looking for trouble. First of all if u continue this or say something that a teacher might here, u will get ur teacher in problems cause' ur a minor. You're young forget about it, dreams r dreams, not reality. Find someone ur age.
Reply:NO!!! that is really wrong dont do anything with him.
Reply:If already a girl friens is there, why dont u search for some other guy. whats ur requrement? sex? or love? for both he is not the best person.
Reply:its not neccesarily the age that is the problem. its the fact that he is a teacher and u are his student. He has a duty of care for his students and it would be totally inappropriate in that sense. Maybe after u graduate or something. but he has a girlfriend anyway
Reply:If he is flirting with you, then that is a somewhat perverted individual....
Reply:I used to have a huge crush on my history teacher when I was in high school too. Except he was more than 9 years older than me. He was married and had four kids. That's the important thing to remember, the guy is taken and you're just a student who is also illegal. I know how much it sucks to be blunt like that, but you have to come to terms with it because he isn't going to leave his girlfriend for you or risk his job for you, that's a fantasy world. If it was a harmless crush I think it's fine, but you sound really attached. Just be careful cause you could get him in a lot of trouble.
Reply:age does no matter in a relationship!!!rite!!!just go on if u think he likes u too...but if he doens't just let it go babe
Reply:the thing is you are his student. if you persue him you could cause him to loose his job and more. so if you really like him respect him and keep it as is he is your teacher. you are the student.
Reply:Sweety if you like him think about him if u and him would get together he would loose his job and maybe go to jail and be forever known as a baby rapist. Im not saying your a kid but to the law you are plus he is your teacher and more then likely it would NEVER happen he sees you as a student and nothing more.
Reply:Men flirt that's just natural. But he is also your teacher and he's your student. Please do not pursue this. This would cause alot of unwanted attention. If you love him then you do not want to cause him his job. That would be bring him down. Not building him up. And that's what a really women suppose to do.


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