What do you think of people who don't answer a message you leave them via phone; email ;mypace; facebok etc?..

And they know it's there?...And you know they've seen it?. is this just rude; inconsiderate or are some "friends" just inconsistent for whatever reason and I just shouldn't take it personally, because they don't think like me?..I tend to be a very thoughtful friend. I've been told this many a times. I treat them like I wish to be treated, most do live up to that. This particular friend has shown and said that I am one of her best friends she's ever had. But I feel like I am overractign or i feel like I should be upset because her not answering, when I know she's seen it-it told me it was sent, makes me feel like she's a flake, and the least she could do is reply-is it that hard?..I did send her another message, but I didn't tell her I was upset.

What do you think of people who don't answer a message you leave them via phone; email ;mypace; facebok etc?..
No you're not overreacting. There's nothing, nothing that pisses me off like when people do this to me. It makes me soooo mad that I tell myself I would never answer their call, but it's my good nature that I do answer their call when they call because I just can't imagine myself doing the same thing they do. These people are rude, inconsiderate bastards who have no respect for others, and they're guaranteed to be people who lie a lot too. In fact, I have just berated two of my friends for doing the same thing or saying they would call right back and never do, or call days later. To me, it's an insult. It's like telling someone they're not important enough to ba called back. I really don't know how people can do this. I could never imagine myself telling someone I'd call them back and never do or call them days or weeks later instead. It's just so damn rude. But again, most people are nothing but a bunch of rude, inconsiderate selfish bastards with no manners.
Reply:One who imposes on another person the unduly duty that would subject the latter to the accusation of being rude if she/he fails to fulfill is rude.
Reply:STop emailing them.
Reply:Get over it, she doesnt want to keep in contact with you obviously, move on and make friends who like you.
Reply:I think they fear that they are being cyber stalked. %26gt;:)
Reply:Sounds like she is not interested in communicating with you.
Reply:I DON'T.
Reply:I've been there, done that. Sometimes it really sucks, because you just want them to reply to you, and acknowledge that you wrote to them. But, you've gotta understand that sometimes people don't have enough time to both read, AND reply to messages. Sometimes it'll take me a day or two to reply to someone, cuz when I get the message, I only have a few minutes to read the message.





Give her a little bit of time to reply, if she doesn't then let her know that you're upset.
Reply:i just delete their asses