I like this girl, but she is sooooo confusing, what do you think?

i'm a 20 year old guy,There's this girl, i knew back in grammar school, but didnt actually know her, jus knew who she was, hadnt seen her in a long time. i saw her at the gym bout a month ago and we started talkin. for the next 3 days, she constantly IMed me, left me facebok comments, said she wanted to hang out, and gave me her number witout me even asking for it. We hang out, i try to make a move on her and she backs off. So now everytime i try to talk to her she jus says she has to go right away or jus doesnt answer, so i apologized for makin her feel uncomfortable and she said its fine. SO i saw her at the gym a week ago for the first time since we hung out. As soon as she sees me she asks me to go on the treadmill with her, then asks me if i wanna workout abs and legs wit her, etc etc. And she was going wherever i was going at the gym. anddd even asked me to go to a %26amp; p with her loll. but ever since then she hasnt contacted me once. im jus confused cause she sendin mixed signals

I like this girl, but she is sooooo confusing, what do you think?
She's looking for a pseudo-boy friend. Someone she can hang out with and do boy friendy stuff with, but not actually have to worry about the relationship or anything.





It's a textbook thing girls do when they're out of a relationship and feel lonely for male companionship.


Trust me dude, you don't want to go out with this girl, as fun as she may seem at first, she'll end up hurting you in the end.





Goodluck though.
Reply:Let her go. That doesn't mean she's gone, it just means it's up to her to contact you now. If she likes you, she will. If not, well, give her a call in a few weeks maybe, but until then don't talk to her.





I don't know what it is about psychology but this works with people we are attracted to for the same reasons it works with salespeople. You tell them "here is what you want, here is why you want it, now YOU make the first move." If they make the first move, it is clear they really wanted it after all. If not, at least you haven't wasted time and hair (that you pulled out) trying to get in touch with them.





I'll tell you something else: if you guys don't talk in the next month, consider it dead. Communication is essential for a relationship and if she doesn't tell you what's going on, you're not communicating.





I'm not one for games. I move fast, and if a girl wants it, she gets it. If she wants it but doesn't give me any signs, I'm off looking for a girl who does. Well, that was how I played when I was single. Now I am happily married. Just remember: no games means no stress. That's the kind of girl you want.

I like this girl, but she is sooo confusing, what do you think?

i'm a 20 year old guy,There's this girl, i knew back in grammar school, but didnt actually know her, jus knew who she was, hadnt seen her in a long time. i saw her at the gym bout a month ago and we started talkin. for the next 3 days, she constantly IMed me, left me facebok comments, said she wanted to hang out, and gave me her number witout me even asking for it. We hang out, it was goin good, i try to make a move on her and she backs off. So now everytime i try to talk to her she jus says she has to go right away or jus doesnt answer, so i apologized for makin her feel uncomfortable and she said its fine. SO i saw her at the gym yesterday for the first time since we hung out. We hadnt talked in about 2 weeks. As soon as she sees me she asks me to go on the treadmill with her, then asks me if i wanna do abs wit her and legs, etc etc. And she was going wherever i was going at the gym. anddd even asked me to go to a %26amp; p with her loll.. im jus confused cause she sendin mixed signal

I like this girl, but she is sooo confusing, what do you think?
perhaps she just wants to take it slow, she obvoiusly likes you by the sound of it, id just carry things on the way they are for a few weeks so she doesnt think you are after 1 thing, even though i doubt you are and see what happens she probably think you are sweet for waiting and then make a move on you !! xx
Reply:i wouldnt no im just 13 :P


lol


srry i was no help


i tink dat she wasnt expecting u to come on to her like dat or something


and maybe shes just wanted to tink it threw maybe u likes u now

I like this girl, but she is sooooo confusing, what do you think?

i'm a 20 year old guy,There's this girl, i knew back in grammar school, but didnt actually know her, jus knew who she was, hadnt seen her in a long time. i saw her at the gym bout a month ago and we started talkin. for the next 3 days, she constantly IMed me, left me facebok comments, said she wanted to hang out, and gave me her number witout me even asking for it. We hang out, i try to make a move on her and she backs off. So now everytime i try to talk to her she jus says she has to go right away or jus doesnt answer, so i apologized for makin her feel uncomfortable and she said its fine. SO i saw her at the gym a week ago for the first time since we hung out. As soon as she sees me she asks me to go on the treadmill with her, then asks me if i wanna workout abs and legs wit her, etc etc. And she was going wherever i was going at the gym. anddd even asked me to go to a %26amp; p with her loll. but ever since then she hasnt contacted me once. im jus confused cause she sendin mixed signals

I like this girl, but she is sooooo confusing, what do you think?
Sounds like a player to me.Girls like this are bad for your health. They'll screw your mind. Forget about her or just see her as a mate but don't fall for her as you'll only wind up getting hurt.
Reply:Could be just being friendly but you won't know unless you have the guts unlike myself to ask her.





Answer mine please and Good Luck:


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How do i make her want me ? please read my story and help?

i like her a lot. i have never really talked with her. she used to be in my class. she might know that i like her. i have her msn id. i want to be with her. i will do anything to impress her. there is a lot of love i want to show her. i will be lucky to be with her . I am also sure that even she will be lucky to be with me. she does not realise that now but she will surely realise it after she is my girlfriend. But that moment when she will be my girlfriend seems to be far away and impossible . how do i make her want me? want kind of conversations do i make with her on msn and facebook??? how do i show her that i want her as well as make myself desirable to her??? how do i approach her in a sober and charming manner???? how do i make her about my charm?? how do i make myself more desirable to her (so that she wants me to ask her out)????--- right now it is spring break aand i cannot see her in school . the only way to contact her is through facebok.

How do i make her want me ? please read my story and help?
number one rule i go by is





just tell her how you feel.





cuz if you dnt youll always be wondering what would it be like if i told her, you know the whole what if game.





and if you tell her and she dsnt feel the same way. . . . well your back to square one. . . you've got nothin to lose.





first of all you dnt need to impress a girl. if she dsnt want you for who you are than she isnt worth it. honestly if she thinks your trying to impress her she'll think your jus a cocky guy that likes to show off. kind of a turn off.





wen i told my boyfriend i liked him when we were just friends and it turned out he liked me too. we've been together ever since (two years)





but yeah number one rule TELL HER!

I like this girl, but she is soooo confusing, what do you think?

i'm a 20 year old guy and this is the weirdest thing ever,There's this girl, i knew about 10 years ago back in grammar school, hadnt seen her in a long time. i saw her at the gym bout a month ago and we started talkin. for the next 3 days, she constantly IMed me, left me facebok comments, said she wanted to hang out, and gave me her number witout me even asking for it. We hang out, it was goin good, i try to make a move on her and she backs off. So now everytime i try to talk to her she jus says she has to go right away or jus doesnt answer, so i apologized for makin her feel uncomfortable and she said its fine. SO i saw her at the gym yesterday for the first time since we hung out. We hadnt talked in about 2 weeks. As soon as she sees me she asks me to go on the treadmill with her, then asks me if i wanna do abs wit her and legs, etc etc. And she was going wherever i was going at the gym. anddd even asked me to go to a %26amp; p with her loll.. im jus confused cause she sendin mixed signals

I like this girl, but she is soooo confusing, what do you think?
I guess she may have been in a bad relationship or a serious one that failed before %26amp; doesn't want to look for anything right now. Or maybe she may want to start something with you but maybe really slow as a friend. You may need to just play this one out or move on. Should you move on, %26amp; she did want something slow with you, your friendship with her may be over. Let this go on for a while for maybe a month or so %26amp; if nothing happens, then moving on may be your only choice. Decide well.

I like this girl, but she is soooooo confusing, what do you think?

i'm a 20 year old guy,There's this girl, i knew back in grammar school, but didnt actually know her, jus knew who she was, hadnt seen her in a long time. i saw her at the gym bout a month ago and we started talkin. for the next 3 days, she constantly IMed me, left me facebok comments, said she wanted to hang out, and gave me her number witout me even asking for it. We hang out, it was goin good, i try to make a move on her and she backs off. So now everytime i try to talk to her she jus says she has to go right away or jus doesnt answer, so i apologized for makin her feel uncomfortable and she said its fine. SO i saw her at the gym yesterday for the first time since we hung out. We hadnt talked in about 2 weeks. As soon as she sees me she asks me to go on the treadmill with her, then asks me if i wanna do abs wit her and legs, etc etc. And she was going wherever i was going at the gym. anddd even asked me to go to a %26amp; p with her loll.. im jus confused cause she sendin mixed signal

I like this girl, but she is soooooo confusing, what do you think?
Looks like you don't know much about her ways.. :)


Do you have common friends? Ask them about her ways. Maybe that's her way of flirting, maybe she's shy in a strange way...


Don't back off!
Reply:I think she likes you, why don't you ask her for coffee?





Good Luck.





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Facebook application?

Is there a Facebok appolication that allows you to see which of your friend saw your porfile?

Facebook application?
Not neccessarily, you can most detailedly figure out who saw your profile, however you probably cannot get that advanced on facebook, sorry!





If this function you say was important, they would of added it, if not email the facebook staff if your stuff, ask for help on other sites aswell!
Reply:no...

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I like this girl, but she is sooo confusing, what do you think?

i'm a 20 year old guy and this is the weirdest thing ever,There's this girl, i knew about 10 years ago back in grammar school, hadnt seen her in a long time. i saw her at the gym bout a month ago and we started talkin. for the next 3 days, she constantly IMed me, left me facebok comments, said she wanted to hang out, and gave me her number witout me even asking for it. We hang out, it was goin good, i try to make a move on her and she backs off. So now everytime i try to talk to her she jus says she has to go right away or jus doesnt answer, so i apologized for makin her feel uncomfortable and she said its fine. SO i saw her at the gym yesterday for the first time since we hung out. We hadnt talked in about 2 weeks. As soon as she sees me she asks me to go on the treadmill with her, then asks me if i wanna do abs wit her and legs, etc etc. And she was going wherever i was going at the gym. anddd even asked me to go to a %26amp; p with her loll.. im jus confused cause she sendin mixed signals

I like this girl, but she is sooo confusing, what do you think?
Talk to her
Reply:yea talk to her. flirt.take it slow. go with the flow
Reply:I dunno dude, did you try to make a move the first time you guys hung out? Maybe you were going to fast.
Reply:She just wants to flirt and be friends, for now.





Take it slowly. Who knows what will happen.
Reply:i think so


mayb she was thinking about what to do
Reply:maybe she just wants to be friends....


if i met a guy i used to know way back when from school, i'd only wanna be friends cause thats such a weird situation...unless he was like REALLY hawt..ask her where she thinks her relationship with you is going!
Reply:Ya know, it still is ok for a female and a male to be friends and do all the things that friends do with the same sex friends. All to often these days people think that a gurl and a guy HAVE to have a sexual relationship in order to have fun and hang out. Maybe she didn't want you to make a move on her, maybe she likes to hang out and talk to you. I know a lot of people disagree with me but it is ok to be friends and thats it. More people would be a lot happier with their lives and find true love if they would understand this.





Some of these other answers are shallow...really..."unless he is really hot..."....and people still think the government is what is wrong with this country, no its ignorance.
Reply:Sounds like she was the one setting the pace and when you took the bait, she backed it down on you. This is not healthy social behavior.





Dude, the rest might be right and she may just be oblivious to the signals she was sending out to you, but there is just something not kosher about the way this sounds. This sounds like a girl with "Issues", and when I was young I set a rule for myself that was born of painful experience. Don't ever try to sleep with a woman when you think that she might be crazier than you. You may have dodged a bullet here.
Reply:i think that she was scared of moving too fast when you put the moves on her, but now realizes she likes you enough to try it again. take it slower this time, get to know her better, keep talkin and hangin, then you can go and make a move again.
Reply:it's because she has to get used to the idea of you liking her because she's not sure how she feels about you yet or just wants to be friends.
Reply:"gave me her number witout me even asking for it"


Call her up, and ask her out. She gave you her number!!!
Reply:I don't know. She could be attached or had a bad breakup. Or not ready for a relationship. Or, you never know, you haven't seen her in years. She could also prefer women instead, right?
Reply:Just because a girl wants to hang out doesn't mean she wants to date you. Most girls just want to have fun. That's what I found out.





As the saying goes, it's easy for girls to be friends with guys and not have feelings, but it's hard for us guys to be friends with girls and not develop quick feelings for them...





If she backed out the first time, then she already told you. If she's being all nice two weeks later, she probably thinks you got over it...





Sounds like an exact situation I was in a while back...Just don't focus too much on this girl. Take it as it is and don't read into her hints...Find other girls...If she really likes you, then she'll think twice..

I like this girl, but she is sooooooo confusin, what do you think?

i'm a 20 year old guy and this is the weirdest thing ever,There's this girl, i knew about 10 years ago back in grammar school, hadnt seen her in a long time. i saw her at the gym bout a month ago and we started talkin. for the next 3 days, she constantly IMed me, left me facebok comments, said she wanted to hang out, and gave me her number witout me even asking for it. We hang out, it was goin good, i try to make a move on her and she backs off. So now everytime i try to talk to her she jus says she has to go right away or jus doesnt answer, so i apologized for makin her feel uncomfortable and she said its fine. SO i saw her at the gym yesterday for the first time since we hung out. We hadnt talked in about 2 weeks. As soon as she sees me she asks me to go on the treadmill with her, then asks me if i wanna do abs wit her and legs, etc etc. And she was going wherever i was going at the gym. anddd even asked me to go to a %26amp; p with her loll.. im jus confused cause she sendin mixed signals

I like this girl, but she is sooooooo confusin, what do you think?
She hangs out with you... your friends.


You make a move, she doesn't like it and stops talking to you.


You say sorry and apologize for hitting on her....so you are friends again.


Friends working out together at the gym.





...It seems clear that she wants to be friends with you and hitting on her was a clear sign that she didn't want that.





*Ps: If she does actually want you then let her make the first move...it's her fault for being so confusing.
Reply:well, first of all, she totally jumped on that relationship way to fast like given u her # w/o u asking for it. i understand why u would try to make a move after she just made a huge one.. idk thats just weird how she acted. i say u dont start a relationship with her until the mixed messages stop. then it wont be so awkward, then get with her

I like this girl, but she is soooo confusing, what do you think?

i'm a 20 year old guy and this is the weirdest thing ever,There's this girl, i knew about 10 years ago back in grammar school, hadnt seen her in a long time. i saw her at the gym bout a month ago and we started talkin. for the next 3 days, she constantly IMed me, left me facebok comments, said she wanted to hang out, and gave me her number witout me even asking for it. We hang out, it was goin good, i try to make a move on her and she backs off. So now everytime i try to talk to her she jus says she has to go right away or jus doesnt answer, so i apologized for makin her feel uncomfortable and she said its fine. SO i saw her at the gym yesterday for the first time since we hung out. We hadnt talked in about 2 weeks. As soon as she sees me she asks me to go on the treadmill with her, then asks me if i wanna do abs wit her and legs, etc etc. And she was going wherever i was going at the gym. anddd even asked me to go to a %26amp; p with her loll.. im jus confused cause she sendin mixed signals

I like this girl, but she is soooo confusing, what do you think?
welcome to the world of women my friend. if you ever figure them out TELL ME!!!!!
Reply:wow, that is confusing.


I would try to go for it again, if she backs off again, try to look at it from another perspective, is she somehow trying to use you? (to get close to a friend of yours or to get her boyfriend jealous).





I hope this helps.
Reply:Maybe she's lonely but just for a friend and not a boyfriend.

I like this girl, but shes soooo confusing, what do you think?

i'm a 20 year old guy and this is the weirdest thing ever,There's this girl, i knew about 10 years ago back in grammar school, hadnt seen her in a long time. i saw her at the gym bout a month ago and we started talkin. for the next 3 days, she constantly IMed me, left me facebok comments, said she wanted to hang out, and gave me her number witout me even asking for it. We hang out, it was goin good, i try to make a move on her and she backs off. So now everytime i try to talk to her she jus says she has to go right away or jus doesnt answer, so i apologized for makin her feel uncomfortable and she said its fine. SO i saw her at the gym yesterday for the first time since we hung out. We hadnt talked in about 2 weeks. As soon as she sees me she asks me to go on the treadmill with her, then asks me if i wanna do abs wit her and legs, etc etc. And she was going wherever i was going at the gym. anddd even asked me to go to a %26amp; p with her loll.. im jus confused cause she sendin mixed signals

I like this girl, but shes soooo confusing, what do you think?
It is very confusing, perhaps play a little more hard ball, treat her as a friend, and enjoy the conversations and times together without any alterior motives.





See how it goes, while you guys get a chance to know each other better.





I'm sure she like's you, but her backing off is really confusing, so take things a little easier.





GL!
Reply:I guess she doesn't like it when you make the first move so let her make the first move when she's comfortable enough to do so.
Reply:I think she is using you to bouns back from a bad relatinship just be you're self and see where it goes
Reply:didnt you ask this already?

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I like this girl, but she is sooooooo confusing, what do you think?

i'm a 20 year old guy and this is the weirdest thing ever,There's this girl, i knew about 10 years ago back in grammar school, hadnt seen her in a long time. i saw her at the gym bout a month ago and we started talkin. for the next 3 days, she constantly IMed me, left me facebok comments, said she wanted to hang out, and gave me her number witout me even asking for it. We hang out, it was goin good, i try to make a move on her and she backs off. So now everytime i try to talk to her she jus says she has to go right away or jus doesnt answer, so i apologized for makin her feel uncomfortable and she said its fine. SO i saw her at the gym yesterday for the first time since we hung out. We hadnt talked in about 2 weeks. As soon as she sees me she asks me to go on the treadmill with her, then asks me if i wanna do abs wit her and legs, etc etc. And she was going wherever i was going at the gym. anddd even asked me to go to a %26amp; p with her loll.. im jus confused cause she sendin mixed signals

I like this girl, but she is sooooooo confusing, what do you think?
i think she jus wants 2 b friends

I like this girl, but she is soooo confusing, what's her deal?

i'm a 20 year old guy and this is the weirdest thing ever,There's this girl, i knew about 10 years ago back in grammar school, hadnt seen her in a long time. i saw her at the gym bout a month ago and we started talkin. for the next 3 days, she constantly IMed me, left me facebok comments, said she wanted to hang out, and gave me her number witout me even asking for it. We hang out, it was goin good, i try to make a move on her and she backs off. So now everytime i try to talk to her she jus says she has to go right away or jus doesnt answer, so i apologized for makin her feel uncomfortable and she said its fine. SO i saw her at the gym yesterday for the first time since we hung out. We hadnt talked in about 2 weeks. As soon as she sees me she asks me to go on the treadmill with her, then asks me if i wanna do abs wit her and legs, etc etc. And she was going wherever i was going at the gym. anddd even asked me to go to a %26amp; p with her loll.. im jus confused cause she sendin mixed signals

I like this girl, but she is soooo confusing, what's her deal?
mayb she wants to be mates but doesnt really no how to act about it? if backed away then just keep it friendly for now. wait for her
Reply:I think what happened before when you tried to make a move on her took her by surprise and that was her reaction to it, she probably felt a bit silly about it herself %26amp; thats why she acted the way she did afterwards.





Maybe she didn't actually want that so fast, but kind of wants to initiate something with you, so in this case your going to have to let her do the initiation for a little or even better, maybe talk to her %26amp; ask her what she would like from you (I.E. A relationship).





Sounds like she likes you, but doesn't really know what she wants, so you have to let her come to you in her own time, if by that time she comes to you %26amp; you've moved, on, well thats how it is %26amp; maybe you weren't meant to be.





But worry about it less %26amp; take each day as it comes, don't be too forward, I mean, she knows now clearly you like her right, so if she likes you too, she will let you know at some point, but it's her that has to do this.





Good luck !

JErsey girll?

i used to live in jersey but now i live in penns. i looked at facebok pics of my old friends and they have such exciting lives. they have boyfriends, and dont mind drinking every now and then and all... i wish i could have some excitement like that. i wouldnt go overboard, but i feel like im not a jersey girl anymore... what do you think...?

JErsey girll?
Maybe they are lying.





N there are trying to make you go back..by thinking they are happy and having fun all the time.....which maybe they probably miss you a lot and their lives are boring with out you.


If not....





You'll make new and better friends in no time.
Reply:I think that (living in PA and knowing someone who lives in Jersey) PA will always be better and funner than Jersey. You just need to look for some new stuff to do and make your Jersey friends jealous because in PA, we party hard and live it up. :]
Reply:youll find new friends and they prob look at your page and think the same thing about you too
Reply:Hairspray your bangs up in the front and get an IROC-Z. Voila! Jersey style

I like this girl, but she is sooooo confusing, what do you think?

i'm a 20 year old guy,There's this girl, i knew back in grammar school, but didnt actually know her, jus knew who she was, hadnt seen her in a long time. i saw her at the gym bout a month ago and we started talkin. for the next 3 days, she constantly IMed me, left me facebok comments, said she wanted to hang out, and gave me her number witout me even asking for it. We hang out, i try to make a move on her and she backs off. So now everytime i try to talk to her she jus says she has to go right away or jus doesnt answer, so i apologized for makin her feel uncomfortable and she said its fine. SO i saw her at the gym a week ago for the first time since we hung out. As soon as she sees me she asks me to go on the treadmill with her, then asks me if i wanna workout abs and legs wit her, etc etc. And she was going wherever i was going at the gym. anddd even asked me to go to a %26amp; p with her loll. but ever since then she hasnt contacted me once. im jus confused cause she sendin mixed signals

I like this girl, but she is sooooo confusing, what do you think?
Ask her to go to church with you.
Reply:haaaahaa...sorry, but she's sending you very mixed signals. She seems to be afraid to get close to you, but there is somethign there...just ask her if she's meaning to send you signals, (just not in those words, i guess), and if not, just ask her if she likes you, and would like to go ut again, because i think it's the only way to get a straight answer...but if i were you, and a man, i would move on...she seems like she's gonna come with some sort of problems.
Reply:wow...she is confusing. I am a girl myself so i have a few ideas why shes doing that. I have a lot of guy friends that i IM and one time, this guy thought i liked him, so he asked me out. When i said no, he flipped out, and sent me mean txts and stuff. So maybe this girl just wants to be friends...but i would definitely ask her....good luck
Reply:I'm confuse here my self! Ask her why she is making things so confussing here! I don't know whats going on here! There are mixed signals here! She sounds like a tease to me! Talk to her and see whats going on here! Best of Luck!
Reply:Chicks!! they are all so confusing. I wouldn't worry about it, she obviously likes you. She's just taking it slow. Let her take the lead and follow along. Things will work themselves out.
Reply:she's probably confused about what she wants..





next time you see her, tell her that you kinda like her but are confused because of how she's acting..ask her if she wants to be friends or if she wants to get to know you..
Reply:Female game player--it's rare that they are this good. You could have a lot of fun with her. Keep talking to her and make sure you stand up for yourself--don't go along with everything she suggests. It will take you a while to win her respect, but when you do, a relationship with her could be really intense. (And if she ever stands you up, tell her it was no problem--and give her a story about the great time you had instead. This is all a power play--hot then cold--don't let her tricks work on you, but don't start messing with her back. Just act like you enjoy being with her, but you don't need her--you are having a great life without her.) She'll either get bored and move on, or decide that you are actually man enough for her and she'll stop the games and start to get real.





If it doesn't work out, the experience will be valuable. You shouldn't stop looking for a girlfriend (don't wait on her!), but don't go running away either.
Reply:Wow, I'm so sorry to hear of your dilemma. These situations are what at times give ladies a bad reputation.





It sounds to me like this girl doesn't know what she wants, and is playing mind games with you. She can't make up her mind and she's running hot and cold.





The question is, how do you feel about her, and her current behavior? Do you like her enough to give it a go and put up with her games?





If so, be honest with her. Direct is always the best policy. Tell her that you are interested in pursuing something but aren't making sense of her mixed signals. If she is worth anything, she will stop behaving the way she is and be more respectful towards your feelings.





If you don't think it's worth pursuing, it may sound cruel, but a clean break might be the best idea. Change your gym (or go when you know she won't be there). Ignore her e-mails, texts, IM's and social networking invitations. It may take time for her to get the message (some people are dense) but she should eventually take the hint.





Good luck to you. :-)
Reply:Dude, i will say stay away from her and make yourself difficult to get for her. Looks like she wants you at her convenience. The more you get involved with someone who is confused, the more complicated the life gets and you spend the rest of your life trying to solve the mystery. Treat her like just your normal friend. You will find things fall in place automatically and you will be very happy. Dont make yourself available easily and always. Hope this helps. You are just 20. If not this, there are other hot cute girls out there. Dont worry. Chill and enjoy life.
Reply:yea she just messing with u and not intrested in u she kinda just looking for a buddy or just a little flirty thing or she just wants someone to hang with when she out in the open and really just playing with u or playing hard to get us woman are complicated so just ask her stright out or she will keep playing games with you.
Reply:i dont know what you do when you say when you make a move, but she sounds nice and cus she aint so easy, this might mean that she wants to build a relationship wid her. Just go out wid her take to some sik places see what happens. You got nuttin to lose. Just flirt wid her and see what she does. If she flirts bak obiously dis is a good sign
Reply:Wow.. that is weird. Is it because in the times that you tried to approach her, she was with other friends or other people and she was too embarassed to show others that she and you like eachother? Because she's afraid of others making fun of you both? and in the gym, maybe she approached you because she saw that none of her friends/classmates were there. Just be patient. If she doesn't like it when you approach her, then just let her approach you. Good luck!
Reply:It sounds like she is just playing games with you. Or maybe she doesn't know weather or not she likes you like that yet. Just ask her why she is acting like this and what is up.
Reply:she just wants to feel better knowing yer chasing her





dont





she doesnt care abt you





this hapopens to me all the time





so i asked some girls i know why they do this


and they say becuase its fun to see how many guys will get yer #... its like a contest to see how many guys are calling htem





stop calling her, shes a bore

dental plans

I like this girl, but she is soooooo confusing, what do you think?

i'm a 20 year old guy,There's this girl, i knew back in grammar school, but didnt actually know her, jus knew who she was, hadnt seen her in a long time. i saw her at the gym bout a month ago and we started talkin. for the next 3 days, she constantly IMed me, left me facebok comments, said she wanted to hang out, and gave me her number witout me even asking for it. We hang out, i try to make a move on her and she backs off. So now everytime i try to talk to her she jus says she has to go right away or jus doesnt answer, so i apologized for makin her feel uncomfortable and she said its fine. SO i saw her at the gym a week ago for the first time since we hung out. As soon as she sees me she asks me to go on the treadmill with her, then asks me if i wanna workout abs and legs wit her, etc etc. And she was going wherever i was going at the gym. anddd even asked me to go to a %26amp; p with her loll. but ever since then she hasnt contacted me once. im jus confused cause she sendin mixed signals

I like this girl, but she is soooooo confusing, what do you think?
be gentleman,,ask her out ( then you'll find out how she feel about you ) good luck!!

I like this girl, but she is sooooo conusing, what do you think?

i'm a 20 year old guy,There's this girl, i knew back in grammar school, but didnt actually know her, jus knew who she was, hadnt seen her in a long time. i saw her at the gym bout a month ago and we started talkin. for the next 3 days, she constantly IMed me, left me facebok comments, said she wanted to hang out, and gave me her number witout me even asking for it. We hang out, i try to make a move on her and she backs off. So now everytime i try to talk to her she jus says she has to go right away or jus doesnt answer, so i apologized for makin her feel uncomfortable and she said its fine. SO i saw her at the gym a week ago for the first time since we hung out. As soon as she sees me she asks me to go on the treadmill with her, then asks me if i wanna workout abs and legs wit her, etc etc. And she was going wherever i was going at the gym. anddd even asked me to go to a %26amp; p with her loll. but ever since then she hasnt contacted me once. im jus confused cause she sendin mixed signal

I like this girl, but she is sooooo conusing, what do you think?
Man! I feel your pain. Your play because you jumped a little too quick and put her to flight. Could be she's just one of those girls that comes across as wishy-washy. Your play will be to hang in there. Play the friendly interested guy. Try to be interesting and topical and a good hard workout partner that helps push her through her workout. Tease her about being weak and frail. Tell her she looks good but probably is no stronger than the standard super model. She will get the idea your confident enough to kid around with her. Be emotionally unavailable, don't be her puppy. Give her time to make up her own mind cause your such a fine catch. Don't try to make up her mind for her. Make her ask you out. Be funny and charming. Now that's a challenge.

I like this girl, but she is soooo confusing, what do you think?

i'm a 20 year old guy,There's this girl, i knew back in grammar school, but didnt actually know her, jus knew who she was, hadnt seen her in a long time. i saw her at the gym bout a month ago and we started talkin. for the next 3 days, she constantly IMed me, left me facebok comments, said she wanted to hang out, and gave me her number witout me even asking for it. We hang out, i try to make a move on her and she backs off. So now everytime i try to talk to her she jus says she has to go right away or jus doesnt answer, so i apologized for makin her feel uncomfortable and she said its fine. SO i saw her at the gym a week ago for the first time since we hung out. As soon as she sees me she asks me to go on the treadmill with her, then asks me if i wanna workout abs and legs wit her, etc etc. And she was going wherever i was going at the gym. anddd even asked me to go to a %26amp; p with her loll. but ever since then she hasnt contacted me once. im jus confused cause she sendin mixed signals

I like this girl, but she is soooo confusing, what do you think?
wow that is a tough one ha. Well she obviously has something for you or she would jusy not talk to you altogether. Maybe she thought you only wanted to "hang out" so you could mess around with her. And after you tried to make a move she wanted to take a step back and let you know she wasn't for that... it could be alot of things. I am a girl and I agree that we are confusing.

I like this girl, but she is soooo confusing, what do you think?

i'm a 20 year old guy,There's this girl, i knew back in grammar school, but didnt actually know her, jus knew who she was, hadnt seen her in a long time. i saw her at the gym bout a month ago and we started talkin. for the next 3 days, she constantly IMed me, left me facebok comments, said she wanted to hang out, and gave me her number witout me even asking for it. We hang out, i try to make a move on her and she backs off. So now everytime i try to talk to her she jus says she has to go right away or jus doesnt answer, so i apologized for makin her feel uncomfortable and she said its fine. SO i saw her at the gym a week ago for the first time since we hung out. As soon as she sees me she asks me to go on the treadmill with her, then asks me if i wanna workout abs and legs wit her, etc etc. And she was going wherever i was going at the gym. anddd even asked me to go to a %26amp; p with her loll. but ever since then she hasnt contacted me once. im jus confused cause she sendin mixed signals

I like this girl, but she is soooo confusing, what do you think?
well thats for sure. maybe she likes the idea of you but then when like it starts actually happening she gets nervous and back off... i don't know just an idea.
Reply:I think that since you barely knew each other at school she has this association: "This guy=school=childhood=security= no romance"


She THINKS she wants you for a friend. She is attracted to you, but in her mind it is "wrong" to be attracted to your former school mate.


You should tell her: "Hey girl, we've grown up and not in school anymore, I think you're cute, I want to hang out with you like a boyfriend, all grown up - think about it" - and just walk away, give her some room to think and process this message.


If she comes back and says she wants the same, you won.


If she will not, then, sorry - she wasn't into you anyways and wanted you for a male "girlfriend".

dental hygienist

I like this girl, but she is sooooo confusing, what do you think?

i'm a 20 year old guy,There's this girl, i knew back in grammar school, but didnt actually know her, jus knew who she was, hadnt seen her in a long time. i saw her at the gym bout a month ago and we started talkin. for the next 3 days, she constantly IMed me, left me facebok comments, said she wanted to hang out, and gave me her number witout me even asking for it. We hang out, i try to make a move on her and she backs off. So now everytime i try to talk to her she jus says she has to go right away or jus doesnt answer, so i apologized for makin her feel uncomfortable and she said its fine. SO i saw her at the gym a week ago for the first time since we hung out. As soon as she sees me she asks me to go on the treadmill with her, then asks me if i wanna workout abs and legs wit her, etc etc. And she was going wherever i was going at the gym. anddd even asked me to go to a %26amp; p with her loll. but ever since then she hasnt contacted me once. im jus confused cause she sendin mixed signals

I like this girl, but she is sooooo confusing, what do you think?
I can almost promise you she has someone else. Even if they aren't 100% committed, there is another guy. That is why she is acting like that.
Reply:This is common with women, they don't know what they want. Furthermore she can't figure out what you want either. From what you explained it seems like the only move you've put in so far was trying to get in her pants. She probably hasn't said anything because she's waiting for you to ask her to do something. I say you should get two tickets to something and tell her a friend bailed on you. DO NOT TRY TO PUT THE MOVES ON HER. If she fled the first time just let her make the first physical move after a few dates she will. relax, have fun, and realize that there are plenty more if this one doesn't work.
Reply:Maybe she's just shy and afraid of getting hurt. Or, she's just trying to mess with you..
Reply:i think she is teasing you
Reply:Perhaps she just wants to take it slow, but then felt bad about it.
Reply:girls can be confusing and she herself doesnt know what to do. Just try talking to her and start out with being friends. She probably thought everything was being rushed but thinks she should still be friends so yeah
Reply:Ask her what is wrong or text message her.
Reply:A girl can LOVE someone as a friend - truly, truly, deeply and be purely platonically. She might have wanted to be friends with you and realized she was giving the wrong signals so she backed off. Then when she saw you again she probably remembered why she wanted to be friends and treated you as such. I think if you want to know whats going on, if it IS more than friends than you contact her. See if she wants to hang out again.
Reply:Very confuseing. Just wait and see
Reply:I'm guessing she likes you, but as a friend or something more I don't know. If you want to try to make a move on her, do it slowly, and get her more comfortable around you. Mixed signals could also mean she's also unsure about this. Whatever you decide, don't rush on it. Good things have to start out with a steady base.
Reply:sounds like she likes you but id wait it out
Reply:i think she might just want to be good friends or mabye she is just really shy
Reply:Wow, that is confusing... Maybe she is confused herself? Maybe she kinda likes you but won't admit it, and gets scared when you make a move on her because she hasn't admitted to herself that that's what she wants you to do? Or maybe she's just playing with you. Also, some people just are like that, hot, cold, hot, cold, it's immature but true. Probably your best move would be to find a golden middle road, meaning not be all over her, but not be cold either, just treat her in a friendly way but keep a little distance. If you stay the same way towards all the time it might help you. It won't hurt your dignity so much if she suddenly turns cold after your response to her warmth, and maybe she might respect you more for not following her whim. Of course, there's the possibility that she's just not right for you... Good luck, hope it works out somehow!
Reply:feel sorry for you mate.


she looks like a hard case. i think you should make it clear to her that you like her and ask her if she likes you and can move to the next level. if she minds this and says no then just don't worry about her. I'm sure you will find someone else.


by the way what do mean by "a %26amp; p"?
Reply:mayb she just wants to be friends with u i dunno.... some chicks are confusing for even us chicks.
Reply:We do that sometimes..SORRY. Just wait it out, if she contacts you then great, if not then let it be.
Reply:she might be confused, or seeing another guy and confused about who she likes more. spit your game more!

I like this girl, but she is soooo confusing, what do you think?

i'm a 20 year old guy,There's this girl, i knew back in grammar school, but didnt actually know her, jus knew who she was, hadnt seen her in a long time. i saw her at the gym bout a month ago and we started talkin. for the next 3 days, she constantly IMed me, left me facebok comments, said she wanted to hang out, and gave me her number witout me even asking for it. We hang out, i try to make a move on her and she backs off. So now everytime i try to talk to her she jus says she has to go right away or jus doesnt answer, so i apologized for makin her feel uncomfortable and she said its fine. SO i saw her at the gym a week ago for the first time since we hung out. As soon as she sees me she asks me to go on the treadmill with her, then asks me if i wanna workout abs and legs wit her, etc etc. And she was going wherever i was going at the gym. anddd even asked me to go to a %26amp; p with her loll. but ever since then she hasnt contacted me once. im jus confused cause she sendin mixed signal

I like this girl, but she is soooo confusing, what do you think?
Obviously you laid it on pretty thick going in for the move right away. She probably either liked you or thought you were cool "friend" potential. You made the move on her and she got freaked so she backed off...not wanting to send you signals that she likes you like a g/f-b/f thing. Don't be ashamed in what you did, it's best to let a girl know from the get go that you are interested in her physically and not JUST emotionally. The last thing you want to do with a girl you like is JUST be her friend...you'll hear about all her dating troubles and such.





Next time don't physically make the move...but hint that you aren't looking to be friends...and either all or nothing. Don't settle....if she isn't interested....move on! Million girls out there for you bud!
Reply:don get invloved w/ sm1 who takes 1 step forward an 5 steps back dats all i'm gonna say.

I like this girl, but she is sooooo confusing, what do you think?

'm a 20 year old guy and this is the weirdest thing ever,There's this girl, i knew about 10 years ago back in grammar school, hadnt seen her in a long time. i saw her at the gym bout a month ago and we started talkin. for the next 3 days, she constantly IMed me, left me facebok comments, said she wanted to hang out, and gave me her number witout me even asking for it. We hang out, it was goin good, i try to make a move on her and she backs off. So now everytime i try to talk to her she jus says she has to go right away or jus doesnt answer, so i apologized for makin her feel uncomfortable and she said its fine. SO i saw her at the gym yesterday for the first time since we hung out. We hadnt talked in about 2 weeks. As soon as she sees me she asks me to go on the treadmill with her, then asks me if i wanna do abs wit her and legs, etc etc. And she was going wherever i was going at the gym. anddd even asked me to go to a %26amp; p with her loll.. im jus confused cause she sendin mixed signals

I like this girl, but she is sooooo confusing, what do you think?
She def doesn't want to be physical. Take it slow. Sounds like she wants to be friends, but isn't sure how.
Reply:um yeah she probably has a boyfriend but likes you too, so she's trying to decide if you're worth it over her current man. she probably liked you instantly, then things went well with her bf, then she dumped him for you so now she's back to fully liking you. if you like her, ask her out! just trust me, EVERY GUY OUT THERE: ya'll are supposed to be brave. why are you all so afraid of getting rejected? I'm a freaking GIRL and I'm not afraid to tell a guy i like him!!!!!!!!

I like this girl, but she is soooooo confusing, what do you think?

i'm a 20 year old guy and this is the weirdest thing ever,There's this girl, i knew about 10 years ago back in grammar school, hadnt seen her in a long time. i saw her at the gym bout a month ago and we started talkin. for the next 3 days, she constantly IMed me, left me facebok comments, said she wanted to hang out, and gave me her number witout me even asking for it. We hang out, it was goin good, i try to make a move on her and she backs off. So now everytime i try to talk to her she jus says she has to go right away or jus doesnt answer, so i apologized for makin her feel uncomfortable and she said its fine. SO i saw her at the gym yesterday for the first time since we hung out. We hadnt talked in about 2 weeks. As soon as she sees me she asks me to go on the treadmill with her, then asks me if i wanna do abs wit her and legs, etc etc. And she was going wherever i was going at the gym. anddd even asked me to go to a %26amp; p with her loll.. im jus confused cause she sendin mixed signals

I like this girl, but she is soooooo confusing, what do you think?
well maybe she was shy at first. but then thought about it. and maybe wants to see if your still into her.
Reply:let her chase you a while... if she has any interest she will go nuts over it

dental hygiene

What do you think about this weird situation? (and im not out to just hook up with this girl then leave her)?

i'm a 20 year old guy and this is the weirdest thing ever,There's this girl, i knew about 10 years ago back in grammar school, hadnt seen her in a long time. i saw her at the gym bout a month ago and we started talkin. for the next 3 days, she constantly IMed me, left me facebok comments, said she wanted to hang out, and gave me her number witout me even asking for it. We hang out, it was goin good, i try to make a move on her and she backs off. So now everytime i try to talk to her she jus says she has to go right away or jus doesnt answer, so i apologized for makin her feel uncomfortable and she said its fine. SO i saw her at the gym yesterday for the first time since we hung out. We hadnt talked in about 2 weeks. As soon as she sees me she asks me to go on the treadmill with her, then asks me if i wanna do abs wit her and legs, etc etc. And she was going wherever i was going at the gym. anddd even asked me to go to a %26amp; p with her loll.. im jus confused cause she sendin mixed signals

What do you think about this weird situation? (and im not out to just hook up with this girl then leave her)?
she probably just likes you as a friend and it weirded her out for awhile when you made your move.
Reply:She probably just wants a really good friend. Guys need to understand that girls can be clingy to friends just the same as to boyfriends. She isn't meaning to send mix signals she just probably wasn't thinking that the way she was behaving may be confusing to you.
Reply:mayb she just wants your friendship,,or wait n let her make the next move,,sounds like shes into u,,so good luck,,love is a kind of fickle thing..
Reply:I would also be confused... either this girl doesn't know what she wants or is just leading you on. Other than that I have no idea what to tell you...
Reply:She just wants to be friends with you. You were after more than that and she stopped you. Don't make another "move" and you should be fine.
Reply:Just get drunk with her sometime and see what happens.





Alot of people slip things out when they are tanked...





Or maybe she will make a move when she is tanked
Reply:i think seh has a crush on you but she confused. she is not sure wether you are going to reject or accept any move she makes towards you. i dont know, maybe you have been giving her mixed feelings, like you are interested in her then suddenly not. give it time and maybe get to talk to her
Reply:Well no one knows what she's thinking. My suggestion is just for you not to act overly needy.





I'm sure you would want to hang out with her in a social setting. So instead of saying, let's go out to dinner, invite her to a party.


Say, me and my friends are going to this party on Friday night and I'd like to see you there, you're friends can come too.





This way it'll make you look like you have social value and it will also make her question whether you actually like her.





If she refuses, it probably means she isn't ready to take things to the next level and maybe it will work in the future.
Reply:i think she likes u but u shoudlnt of made a move on her..
Reply:well, i don't think she's sending mixed signals, i think maybe she's persuing a friendship, wants to get to know you again, so she wants to hang out with you.





YOU made the move wayyyy too fast. she's obviously not a fast girl, which is a good thing... but even if i were interested in a guy while i was single, and hung out, and on that first day of hanging out he tried to make a move on me, that is pretty uncomfortable. So just take it slowly with this one. your probably not used to things not going your way, but this is a good thing my friend.. don't let it go!
Reply:Either she is confused about what she wants,


or... she justs wants to be friends, or still needs time to get to know you better before anything else happens.
Reply:Slow down! Be friends first! You will never know what kind of a relationship it could lead to! Communicate! If you can't talk and tell her how you feel, but you're making moves on her, it's probably not going to work out, because girls want to be wanted for who they are within, not just sex!! I wish you the very best!!

What do you think on this weird situation? (and im not out to just get with this girl then leave her)?

i'm a 20 year old guy and this is the weirdest thing ever,There's this girl, i knew about 10 years ago back in grammar school, hadnt seen her in a long time. i saw her at the gym bout a month ago and we started talkin. for the next 3 days, she constantly IMed me, left me facebok comments, said she wanted to hang out, and gave me her number witout me even asking for it. We hang out, it was goin good, i try to make a move on her and she backs off. So now everytime i try to talk to her she jus says she has to go right away or jus doesnt answer, so i apologized for makin her feel uncomfortable and she said its fine. SO i saw her at the gym yesterday for the first time since we hung out. We hadnt talked in about 2 weeks. As soon as she sees me she asks me to go on the treadmill with her, then asks me if i wanna do abs wit her and legs, etc etc. And she was going wherever i was going at the gym. anddd even asked me to go to a %26amp; p with her lolll.. im jus confused cuz she sendin mixed signal

What do you think on this weird situation? (and im not out to just get with this girl then leave her)?
Tell her you have the best exercise in the world for her and invite her over for some drinks lol.
Reply:What kind of move did you try to make on her? Did you move in for a gentle kiss, or did you try to hump her leg? It sounds as if you pushed for too much too soon. Ease off a little Ralph.
Reply:Does she have a boyfriend?? That might explain why she doesnt answer or is short all the time. She may be interestead in you and your company but under certain circumstances... she wants to talk to you when she's either giddy or bored for that matter... if she keeps it up I would move on.....

I like this girl, but she is soooooo confusing, what do you think?

i'm a 20 year old guy and this is the weirdest thing ever,There's this girl, i knew about 10 years ago back in grammar school, hadnt seen her in a long time. i saw her at the gym bout a month ago and we started talkin. for the next 3 days, she constantly IMed me, left me facebok comments, said she wanted to hang out, and gave me her number witout me even asking for it. We hang out, it was goin good, i try to make a move on her and she backs off. So now everytime i try to talk to her she jus says she has to go right away or jus doesnt answer, so i apologized for makin her feel uncomfortable and she said its fine. SO i saw her at the gym yesterday for the first time since we hung out. We hadnt talked in about 2 weeks. As soon as she sees me she asks me to go on the treadmill with her, then asks me if i wanna do abs wit her and legs, etc etc. And she was going wherever i was going at the gym. anddd even asked me to go to a %26amp; p with her loll.. im jus confused cause she sendin mixed signals

I like this girl, but she is soooooo confusing, what do you think?
maybe she just wanted to be friends, or she wanted to get to know you better before dating you. just go with it. your either going to get a gf out of this or a friend.
Reply:she likes to chase rather then be chase.. if you want her ... PLAY HARD TO GET please

I like this girl, but she is soooooo confusing, what do you think?

i'm a 20 year old guy and this is the weirdest thing ever,There's this girl, i knew about 10 years ago back in grammar school, hadnt seen her in a long time. i saw her at the gym bout a month ago and we started talkin. for the next 3 days, she constantly IMed me, left me facebok comments, said she wanted to hang out, and gave me her number witout me even asking for it. We hang out, it was goin good, i try to make a move on her and she backs off. So now everytime i try to talk to her she jus says she has to go right away or jus doesnt answer, so i apologized for makin her feel uncomfortable and she said its fine. SO i saw her at the gym yesterday for the first time since we hung out. We hadnt talked in about 2 weeks. As soon as she sees me she asks me to go on the treadmill with her, then asks me if i wanna do abs wit her and legs, etc etc. And she was going wherever i was going at the gym. anddd even asked me to go to a %26amp; p with her loll.. im jus confused cause she sendin mixed signals

I like this girl, but she is soooooo confusing, what do you think?
well sometimes thats just what girls do maybe she doesnt know what she's doing herself
Reply:You should just ask her what do you feel about me that way you will really know what she is thinking.





About the movie thing she just probably got nervous

blue tooth

What do you think on this veryy confusingg situationn?

I'm 20 years old and this is the weirdest thing ever,There's this girl, i knew about 10 years ago back in grammar school, hadnt seen her in a long time. i saw her at the gym bout a month ago and we started talkin. for the next 3 days, she constantly IMed me, left me facebok comments, said she wanted to hang out, and gave me her number witout me even asking for it. We hang out, it was goin good, i try to make a move on her and she backs off. i didnt act mad. So now everytim i try to talk to her she jus says she has to go right away or jus doesnt answer, so i apologized for makin her feel uncomfortable and she said its fine. SO i saw her at the gym yesterday for the first time since we hung out. We hadnt talked in about 2 weeks. As soon as she sees me she asks me to go on the treadmill with her, then asks me if i wanna do abs wit her and legs, etc etc. And is even followin me around at the gym. anddd even asked me to go to a %26amp; p with her lolll.. im jus confused cuz she sendin mixed signa

What do you think on this veryy confusingg situationn?
you went too fast on the first time and she was uncomfortable.


shes giving you a second chance.


take it
Reply:Women!!!!...what are ya' gonna do. Hey, start hanging out with ANOTHER pretty girl and see how she acts....try to make yourself look unavailable to her and maybe she'll be even MORE interested in you rather than just a workout buddy.
Reply:You posted this twice. Why?
Reply:i agree thats shes giving you a second chance. dont go too fast...just hang out with her in a casual setting and dont try making moves too fast on her...she might get scared off again. also take into considerationg something might have happened or she really was busy during that time.
Reply:I cant help you but I know someone who can!


go to advicegirl.has.it


Click on Ask Questions here


Go under boys and click new topic


then ask your question

I like this girl, but she is sooo confusing, what do you think?

i'm a 20 year old guy,There's this girl, i knew back in grammar school, but didnt actually know her, jus knew who she was, hadnt seen her in a long time. i saw her at the gym bout a month ago and we started talkin. for the next 3 days, she constantly IMed me, left me facebok comments, said she wanted to hang out, and gave me her number witout me even asking for it. We hang out, i try to make a move on her and she backs off. So now everytime i try to talk to her she jus says she has to go right away or jus doesnt answer, so i apologized for makin her feel uncomfortable and she said its fine. SO i saw her at the gym a week ago for the first time since we hung out. As soon as she sees me she asks me to go on the treadmill with her, then asks me if i wanna workout abs and legs wit her, etc etc. And she was going wherever i was going at the gym. anddd even asked me to go to a %26amp; p with her loll. but ever since then she hasnt contacted me once. im jus confused cause she sendin mixed signals

I like this girl, but she is sooo confusing, what do you think?
It sounds like either:


1. She doesn't like you, but she wants you to like her





or





2. She likes you, but is confused about what to do
Reply:i dont kno about this one.... i guess you could try to talk to her and see if there is something wrong.... good luck
Reply:Maybe she just doesnt know what to do yet.Give her some time.Do you like her?
Reply:Let her know how you feel and get an answer. Don't let her string you along or you might regret it. Is it her or the sex you're after?
Reply:have u tried talking to her about it, does she no u like her, and is hse already IN a relationship.
Reply:sounds like shes flirting, ONLY wants to flirt. and was your MOVE too much- next time make it subtle. BIG moves (touchy feely) on first time hanging out can scare someone off
Reply:sounds to me like, either she cant make her mind up whether she wants you or not, or she's just playing around with you.





either way its not fair for her to lead you on, then keep turning you away everytime you make an advance towards her, maybe you should just ask her nicely, and try to find out whats up...





maybe she's just feeling a little lonely, or maybe she's just playing around either way, the only true way to find out is to talk to her about it =]





hope that helps
Reply:well maybe she doesnt want to rush things, i think u should just take it nice and slow and then if she likes u she will come to you,


and yes us girls are confusing and sometimes we do give or mixed signals but thats only because sometimes either we are to scared to commit, or we dont want to get hurt or we just really dont know what we want at that moment,


but yeah just sit back relaxe and if she likes u then she will come to you,


hope i helped some


if not sorry,


but the best of luck to u!
Reply:as a girl, I know: some girls just love the thrill of the chase. They like to see a guy get interested in them and once they take the bait, the girl sort of loses interest. sometimes people look for some harmless flirting. why dont u ask her upfront what hew motives are?
Reply:it's either she's hiding something...r she doesnt like you in that kind of way....are just the simple fact she's scared try consulting her about the problem
Reply:dude its a woman what the hell do you expect there friggin nuts if you try to make any sence of this ur gonna go crazy just let it play out im thinkin she wants to chase but ur meeting her half way act as if you dont care if you see her she will call they all do its part of there game they all want what they cant have let her see you with another woman at the gym that will stirr the pot LOL
Reply:I think she just likes you as a work out partner.. Are you teaching her things she does not normally do??
Reply:good question, what is wrong with women anyway? If you act nice, look good, have a good personality, and a career. They never seem impressed, women are stupid!


How bout this, just ignore her for a month straight, she'll try her best to get attention from you. Do what she is doing to you, make her have a taste of her own medicine.

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I like this girll, but idkk what to doo, im confusedddd?

i'm a 20 year old guy and this is the weirdest thing ever,There's this girl, i knew about 10 years ago back in grammar school, hadnt seen her in a long time. i saw her at the gym bout a month ago and we started talkin. for the next 3 days, she constantly IMed me, left me facebok comments, said she wanted to hang out, and gave me her number witout me even asking for it. We hang out, it was goin good, i try to make a move on her and she backs off. So now everytime i try to talk to her she jus says she has to go right away or jus doesnt answer, so i apologized for makin her feel uncomfortable and she said its fine. SO i saw her at the gym yesterday for the first time since we hung out. We hadnt talked in about 2 weeks. As soon as she sees me she asks me to go on the treadmill with her, then asks me if i wanna do abs wit her and legs, etc etc. And she was going wherever i was going at the gym. anddd even asked me to go to a %26amp; p with her loll.. im jus confused cause she sendin mixed signals

I like this girll, but idkk what to doo, im confusedddd?
its simple... ask her what she wants. only SHE knows.





good luck :)
Reply:she had 2 think about it...but now i think she'z pretty sure of what she wantz..i might of done the same thing...u knoe GURLZ NEED TIME 2 THINK...lol...
Reply:It could be one of two things! Either she is shy, or she just want to be close friends with you!
Reply:Her head was confused. Take the first 2 signals and go for her. If she pulls back just wait for her to come talk again. If you see her at the gym pretend that you dont know shes there and get on a machine 30ish feet in-front of her.
Reply:either she was concerned awhile back and didn't want to move too fast or something but just be prepared for if it happens again.

I like this girl, but she is soooo confusing, what do you think?

i'm a 20 year old guy,There's this girl, i knew back in grammar school, but didnt actually know her, jus knew who she was, hadnt seen her in a long time. i saw her at the gym bout a month ago and we started talkin. for the next 3 days, she constantly IMed me, left me facebok comments, said she wanted to hang out, and gave me her number witout me even asking for it. We hang out, i try to make a move on her and she backs off. So now everytime i try to talk to her she jus says she has to go right away or jus doesnt answer, so i apologized for makin her feel uncomfortable and she said its fine. SO i saw her at the gym a week ago for the first time since we hung out. As soon as she sees me she asks me to go on the treadmill with her, then asks me if i wanna workout abs and legs wit her, etc etc. And she was going wherever i was going at the gym. anddd even asked me to go to a %26amp; p with her loll. but ever since then she hasnt contacted me once. im jus confused cause she sendin mixed signal

I like this girl, but she is soooo confusing, what do you think?
Well, I think you definitely did the right to apologize for maybe making her feel uncomfortable, that was very classy of you...hopefully she'll realize THAT, and contact you...did the gym/A%26amp;p stuff all happen in one day? If it did, she could just be busy or something, and will get back to you when she knows she has time to talk.
Reply:Obviously you laid it on pretty thick going in for the move right away. She probably either liked you or thought you were cool "friend" potential. You made the move on her and she got freaked so she backed off...not wanting to send you signals that she likes you like a g/f-b/f thing. Don't be ashamed in what you did, it's best to let a girl know from the get go that you are interested in her physically and not JUST emotionally. The last thing you want to do with a girl you like is JUST be her friend...you'll hear about all her dating troubles and such.





Next time don't physically make the move...but hint that you aren't looking to be friends...and either all or nothing. Don't settle....if she isn't interested....move on! Million girls out there for you bud!
Reply:go to mcdonalds and get a big mac and mail it to her using UPS ground.
Reply:ok call her and say hey how r things goin then ask if she wants to hang out soon if she says she can't then ask when you can it always works hope it does for u
Reply:o my wll explain it all to her just as you have us and tell her you need to know whatz up she is allllll about you and then she doesnt speak or contact you ask her whatzzzzzzzz up
Reply:the best way is honesty. just tell her how you feel and what you think about what she is doing and ask her what she feels. Just be prepared for any outcome.
Reply:shes nervous she wants u to.........








answer my question








http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;...
Reply:This is exactly how the girl i like acts. I'm sorry to say i don't really know any other way than confronting her about it which is exactly what i will be doing tomorrow.





Good luck man!
Reply:i guess she just likes you as a friend?? who the hell knows

I like this girl, butt she is sooooooo confusing, what do you think?

i'm a 20 year old guy and this is the weirdest thing ever,There's this girl, i knew about 10 years ago back in grammar school, hadnt seen her in a long time. i saw her at the gym bout a month ago and we started talkin. for the next 3 days, she constantly IMed me, left me facebok comments, said she wanted to hang out, and gave me her number witout me even asking for it. We hang out, it was goin good, i try to make a move on her and she backs off. So now everytime i try to talk to her she jus says she has to go right away or jus doesnt answer, so i apologized for makin her feel uncomfortable and she said its fine. SO i saw her at the gym yesterday for the first time since we hung out. We hadnt talked in about 2 weeks. As soon as she sees me she asks me to go on the treadmill with her, then asks me if i wanna do abs wit her and legs, etc etc. And she was going wherever i was going at the gym. anddd even asked me to go to a %26amp; p with her loll.. im jus confused cause she sendin mixed signals

I like this girl, butt she is sooooooo confusing, what do you think?
i think that she's just looking for an exercise buddy.
Reply:Maybe she wants to take it slow

I like this girl, buttt she is soooooo confusing, what do you think?

i'm a 20 year old guy and this is the weirdest thing ever,There's this girl, i knew about 10 years ago back in grammar school, hadnt seen her in a long time. i saw her at the gym bout a month ago and we started talkin. for the next 3 days, she constantly IMed me, left me facebok comments, said she wanted to hang out, and gave me her number witout me even asking for it. We hang out, it was goin good, i try to make a move on her and she backs off. So now everytime i try to talk to her she jus says she has to go right away or jus doesnt answer, so i apologized for makin her feel uncomfortable and she said its fine. SO i saw her at the gym yesterday for the first time since we hung out. We hadnt talked in about 2 weeks. As soon as she sees me she asks me to go on the treadmill with her, then asks me if i wanna do abs wit her and legs, etc etc. And she was going wherever i was going at the gym. anddd even asked me to go to a %26amp; p with her loll.. im jus confused cause she sendin mixed signals

I like this girl, buttt she is soooooo confusing, what do you think?
sounds like she's already in a different relationship.

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I like this girlll, but she is sooooo confusing, what do you think?

i'm a 20 year old guy and this is the weirdest thing ever,There's this girl, i knew about 10 years ago back in grammar school, hadnt seen her in a long time. i saw her at the gym bout a month ago and we started talkin. for the next 3 days, she constantly IMed me, left me facebok comments, said she wanted to hang out, and gave me her number witout me even asking for it. We hang out, it was goin good, i try to make a move on her and she backs off. So now everytime i try to talk to her she jus says she has to go right away or jus doesnt answer, so i apologized for makin her feel uncomfortable and she said its fine. SO i saw her at the gym yesterday for the first time since we hung out. We hadnt talked in about 2 weeks. As soon as she sees me she asks me to go on the treadmill with her, then asks me if i wanna do abs wit her and legs, etc etc. And she was going wherever i was going at the gym. anddd even asked me to go to a %26amp; p with her loll.. im jus confused cause she sendin mixed signals

I like this girlll, but she is sooooo confusing, what do you think?
That is confusing... I think she likes you but doesn't want to move too fast. She wants the relationship to progress slowly. Or maybe, she was just nervous when you made a move on her and thats why she backed off. She probably was embarassed about backing off and thats why she didn't really talk to you those few days. I think, after she found out that you thought you were the wrong one, she got comfortable again. Makes sense?
Reply:u dont wanna make the same mistake again, so wait for her to make a move
Reply:Take it slower next time. She's giving you another opportunity. Let her make the first real move.
Reply:hmmm well im kinda guessing that she is one of those hard to get type people. I would wait ,don't spoil it for yourself if you really do like her.Just wait till she asks you out.
Reply:sounds like she needs company but not necessarily a bed buddy...seems she likes to chill in places with a lot of other ppl around (ie the gym and grocery store)...if ur lookin to get laid then look somewheres else cuz jus seems like she wants to be close friends without the bump and grind..
Reply:i think she probably wanted i but not yet. it scared her that you wanted it right then.. maybe?
Reply:dude! you just described my situation. its good to know im not the only one out there like that
Reply:you have to get back to her and just tell her you want her .. do it now..
Reply:maybe she just wanted a buddy to hang out with at the gym... she might like hanging out with you....but i dont think she likes you like that yet....so if you want her too, just keep hanging out with her, till she want to make a move on you.





Thats like the exact same thing that happened with my now boyfriend. We were in middle school together and hadn't seen eachother for years. Have the same friends so we bumped into eachother couple times, started hanging out, he liked me, but i didnt like him like that yet....He liked me, and i knew that, but we just used to hang out and be friends, and now i'm totally in love with him! :-D

Why do guys who arent that attractive take pleasure in making a girl feel like shes not good enough for him?

the funny thing is, is evryone tells me i could do so much better in choice,and im over him, but still feel a little mad that he thinks evryone likes him. it is true evryone in our group of friends has had a crush on him, but i wasnt obvious about it, yet he appears to group me in with the rest, as another girl who wishes she could date him but never could. is he that egotistical that he thinks evry girl is low in comaprison to himself. i feel so hurt, and ugly, its almost like hes tryn to rub it in my face that i had a crush on him, and that he knew about it like it happens evryday. i hate cocky guys, i hate him so much right now that i even deleted him from my myspace, facebok, and aim. what do you think, is he trying to make be feel inadequate and ugly or is it me???? He is a guy slut and thinks hes hott stuff when hes ok, why cant he get it that not evryone has the hotss for him. even if i did like him for a while...he gets me so mad

Why do guys who arent that attractive take pleasure in making a girl feel like shes not good enough for him?
Okay, you definitely like this guy and he has hurt your feelings real bad. You thought he was different and it turns out that he is a typical guy jock who thinks he is hot stuff due to many girls liking him. For your own good find some one else to think about. This guy will only hurt you more because cares only for himself.
Reply:It is he who has the problem and he doesn't think so, interesting how some guys are so comfortable in their own skin. If I were you I would try to let go of your feelings towards him, you can see that its exhausting you. Put more energy into something that is worth more value to you.
Reply:because he's cocky and girls seem to like cocky guys . i don't know why
Reply:babygirl NEVER let a dude make u think less of yourself, dnt let his actions bother u! jus kno its apart of growing up. all u have to do to fix him is to find someone else who looks better than him n show him NO attn whether it be good or bad and he'll rmbr that u once liked him and now somebody else has u and that will make him wonder wat does the other dude have to take ur attn away from him.. id like to see your myspace tho bc i bet you are a beautiful girl... and this is coming from a boy
Reply:probably due to the girl thinking looks are important... and vengence is so sweet... :D
Reply:Guys that are not that attractive know that they're not. Also, if you dumped him he's probably upset about it and so he's trying to make you think that it's your lose and not his and tries to make you think that nobody else wants you but there are lots of chicks who want him. That's not true though! He;s just trying to build his own ego and ruin your's. Don't listen to him, he;s talking sh!t! Nine times out of ten, there isnt anyone else that wants him. If that were true then way isnt he with someone else already and why is he ragging on you? Think about it!!!
Reply:hi 123


i wanna say WOW. thats a super cocky sick man you were dating. good that you dumped him





he have some mental issues ...





the ture man should never think of him self is great looking . real man should be strong and handsome . not hot and stuff .





real man should leave to be hot , sexy , cute to you 123








always your best answer

What do you think about this unusual situation? (and im not out to just get with this girl then leave her)?

i'm a 20 year old guy and this is the weirdest thing ever,There's this girl, i knew about 10 years ago back in grammar school, hadnt seen her in a long time. i saw her at the gym bout a month ago and we started talkin. for the next 3 days, she constantly IMed me, left me facebok comments, said she wanted to hang out, and gave me her number witout me even asking for it. We hang out, it was goin good, i try to make a move on her and she backs off. So now everytime i try to talk to her she jus says she has to go right away or jus doesnt answer, so i apologized for makin her feel uncomfortable and she said its fine. SO i saw her at the gym yesterday for the first time since we hung out. We hadnt talked in about 2 weeks. As soon as she sees me she asks me to go on the treadmill with her, then asks me if i wanna do abs wit her and legs, etc etc. And she was going wherever i was going at the gym. anddd even asked me to go to a %26amp; p with her lolll.. im jus confused cuz she sendin mixed signals

What do you think about this unusual situation? (and im not out to just get with this girl then leave her)?
Dude, she really likes you a lot as a friend, but she is not wanting to date you.
Reply:Ok, jsut ask her what is going on. Say I know I moved to fast and I don't want to make you uncomfortable again. Can we go out again. Take it slow!!
Reply:She likes you but not sexualy
Reply:Maybe she acted like that because she's been seriously hurt before and doesn't want to take anymore chances. It seems as if she really likes you so just don't rush into things and let her make the moves on you. Everything will work out just fine in the end... if it's meant to be.
Reply:She was on her period all last week. Now she's ready for ya.
Reply:It can be frustrating, but often those mixed signals are a girl's way of saying, "I'm really interested in you, but I don't know if I want to put you in the 'friend' or 'boyfriend' category yet." Also, girls behave this way with guys they want to get to know on a completely nonsexual, casual level.





My advice: spend time with her if you wish, but expect nothing, and let her take the lead. If she decides that she wants to raise the level of your relationship, she'll start sending stronger sexual signals or make some moves herself.





A note of caution: A rare number of women send mixed signals deliberately, either out of malice or due to some other personal issues. If she constantly raises the ante sexually to get you to respond, and then swiftly shuts you down the moment you do, you need to bow out of that relationship gracefully.





Good luck!
Reply:all i can say is she doesn't like you!! it's only an ego trip with you!
Reply:maybe she's playing hard to get or she just likes u as a friend. maybe try to get closer to her do things you guys usually do and as you guys go your relationship will progresses and you'll get closer and closer and maybe close enough to date

I like this girl, but she is sooooo confusing, what do you think?

i'm a 20 year old guy,There's this girl, i knew back in grammar school, but didnt actually know her, jus knew who she was, hadnt seen her in a long time. i saw her at the gym bout a month ago and we started talkin. for the next 3 days, she constantly IMed me, left me facebok comments, said she wanted to hang out, and gave me her number witout me even asking for it. I mean what does that sound like? So We hang out, i try to make a move on her and she backs off. So now everytime i try to talk to her she jus says she has to go right away or jus doesnt answer, so i apologized for makin her feel uncomfortable and she said its fine. SO i saw her at the gym a week ago for the first time since we hung out. As soon as she sees me she asks me to go on the treadmill with her, then asks me if i wanna workout abs and legs wit her, etc etc. And she was going wherever i was going at the gym. and asked me to go to the a %26amp; p with her loll. but ever since then she hasnt contacted me once. Im confused

I like this girl, but she is sooooo confusing, what do you think?
She's probably more confused than you are. One reason could be that she got back with her man or just playing the field. Move on and don't dwell it. Obviously she's not. Go out and get your game on,playa!
Reply:Maybe she wants to be friends first. I'm guessing she likes you but she wants friendship first. Since you tried making a move and she backed off, it's probably because it was too fast.





So keep hanging out with her, try IMing her for a chance. Leave her a facebook comment "Gym was fun, going again Wed, see you there?" or whatev.





Basically be friends first.
Reply:It sounds like she's more comfortable getting to know you as a friend. Whether or not, there's anything else there...you probably won't find out unless you go at her pace. For whatever reason (something you will probably find out as you learn more about her), her pace is S-L-O-W. It does sound like she likes you.
Reply:maybe she got a man you should ask and tell her how you feel about her she cannt read mined so you got make her now cause you dont wan to foll in love with some1 who dont love you back
Reply:Well she certainly gave you loads of signals. To just back off, unless your move was extremely off base too forward is weird. I hate to suggest this but she sounds very mixed up so if it was me I would either just stay well away or have a nice friendly chat with her and tell her that you don't like mixed messages and see how she reacts. Don't hold your breath!
Reply:Maybe it was too soon to make a move :-S and it may have made her feel slightly uncomfortable.


maybe you should just text or comment her asking how she is and if she doesn't reply, don't start chasing her or stalking her, she's not really worth the effort if she keeps messing you around like that, i mean you did apologise.





I don't want to be annoying but could someone help with my question too? :-S


http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;...

teeth problems

I like this girl, but she is sooooo confusing, what do you think?

i'm a 20 year old guy,There's this girl, i knew back in grammar school, but didnt actually know her, jus knew who she was, hadnt seen her in a long time. i saw her at the gym bout a month ago and we started talkin. for the next 3 days, she constantly IMed me, left me facebok comments, said she wanted to hang out, and gave me her number witout me even asking for it. We hang out, i try to make a move on her and she backs off. So now everytime i try to talk to her she jus says she has to go right away or jus doesnt answer, so i apologized for makin her feel uncomfortable and she said its fine. SO i saw her at the gym a week ago for the first time since we hung out. As soon as she sees me she asks me to go on the treadmill with her, then asks me if i wanna workout abs and legs wit her, etc etc. And she was going wherever i was going at the gym. anddd even asked me to go to a %26amp; p with her loll. but ever since then she hasnt contacted me once. im jus confused cause she sendin mixed signal

I like this girl, but she is sooooo confusing, what do you think?
It sounds to be like she's playing games with you. Either that or she wants to be more than friends but then gets scared for some reason. Some people have a lof of hidden issues.
Reply:The signals are clear to me. She finds you attractive and has put you in her possible Mr. Right category.





But with that said (and she told you that non-verbally when she paid attention to you), she is now trying to figure out whether you really like her or just want to bang her.





She made it clear that she's not looking for a guy who just wants to bang her, and although you initially disqualified yourself, you made up for it later by apologizing to her.





She's now giving you another try by allowing you go get invovled with her in other ways. Working out with her (instead of having sex). Going to the grocery store with her (I guess that's what you meant by A%26amp;P) instead of having sex. Now that she's given you the signals, she waiting to see whether you've caught on to what she's looking for.





She's looking for Mr. Right. Not a guy who just wants to bang her. If she's Ms. Right, you won't mind. If she's not Ms. Right, you will mind and should move on to find someone else who just wants to have sex. If and when you do that, she'll move on to finding Mr. Right elsewhere.





Hope you won't take offense, but you seem to interpret interest from a woman as a signal that she wants to have sex with you. And you are not exactly wrong in thinking that, because quite often that is exactly the case. But, some women (believe it or not) want to also know whether that's all you want from them, and they do what she's doing to find out.





Initially, she showed interest in you.


Then you made it clear that you want sex.


Nothing wrong with that. You're a man and she's a woman.


But she rejected that to find out whether that's all you want.


If that was all you wanted, you should have moved on.


But you didn't. You apologized instead.


So, she thinks there's a possibility that aren't just trying to bang her.


And she asked you to workout with her.


You did, and that was great.


She's now waiting to see what you'll do next.


If she's special, you'll call her and spend time with her.


If she's just a potential piece of tail, you'll be confused.


She'll eventually figure you out.


You need to make a decision.


If you just want sex, your best move is to move on.


She no dummy.


She won't be duped.


She'll figure you out and dump you.


And that's the truth.





To net it out:


If you like her more than just for sex, call her.


If you just want sex, move on to easier prey.


This girl is no dummy.


And the guy who wins her heart is going to have found someone very special for himself. From your perspective, it should simply be a matter of deciding whether she's THE one you're willing to give up all other women to be with or not.





The choices are not a matter of right or wrong. They are a matter of being happy or unhappy. And the wise thing to do is to be honest with yourself. if you can give up all the other women, go for this one. If you can't give up all the other women, go for the other women, cuz trying to include this one with all the other women will certainly bring you unhappiness. If you're a player, you need to be able to recognize the smart ones and walk away from them. They will be nothing but trouble for you. You'll be a much happier player by concentrating on the easy ones. You are no doubt an attractive man, otherwise this one would not have paid any attention to you, so moving on and attracting easy women should not be a problem for you if that's the route you choose to take.
Reply:I think you need to plain ask her out on a date An old fashion date Movie dinner whate ever but NO ....... you know what while you are out on a date. Get to know her. Take time and effort out for her. See how it goes Already you are few steps backwards because she has already taken over from what you would normally have done on your own time. It is too bad she made moves on you too fast too soon. It really put you on the spot It was no longer in your hands. She asked to IM you and did so and you noticed she asked first before you did If she does not go out with you, then stop the relationship because right now it is all on her terms and you dont seem to have a say in it. Do not just be her hound. And ask to see if there is man in her life. Ask questions to her. If it gets really uncomfortable for you, like if she does not go out with you on a date, than consider changing the time you go to the gym or change gyms. And next time, do not let a lady make the first moves on you. If a lady asks for your email etc etc first, that means she is starting to dominate and it takes out what you were going to do naturally. Next time say, no I dont give out my messenger to pretty ladies but would you like to go on a date with me.instead. Chatting and talking on a messenger is not going out and getting to know each other Talking face to face will give you more information about this lady. Make sure your ball stays in your court, do not hand over your control again. She did not make a smart move on you. Whether that affects your relationship, if it comes to that , or not will remain to be seen. If a man accepts a woman pursuing him, then he becomes a push over to her. So stop her from pushing you around.
Reply:she aint really sending you mixed messages lol. Your just moving to fast. She might just want a friend for now. Tkae your time GOOD LUCK !!!!!!!!!!
Reply:women like it when they can play with guys... they like to feel powerful... make her feel less powerful, play with her, and then you'll have her.
Reply:Try it again. Maybe the first time she was playin hard to get.
Reply:don't be so available, sounds like she wants to hunt, and your not hiding, if you like her, and don't mind her thinking she has bagged you, ......well that's the kind you got there
Reply:If she is not showing 100% interest in being more than friends with you, then there are no mixed signals. She is sending one signal, and that is "I know you like me, but I am just not attracted to you like that, there are other girls out there and I know that you can find another girl that will make you happy. Let's just be friends". And to conclude with that long interpretation of what signal she sent you, I would like to add that it would be in your best interest at this point to start finding another potential girlfriend.
Reply:i think it could become something in the future if you play your cards just right but you moved to fast for her man to tell you the truth . you need to relax and take it easy for a while . but it is very obvious that she wants you as a friend bro . and the fact she forgave you is a good sign . but if she isn't calling you for a while chances are she could have a bf or another interest. hope it helps man .
Reply:she's totally playing you...girls, and i do mean girls, are all about themselves and will use you and play with you for their own amusement. don't take the bait...next time she tries to yank your chain, tell her you aren't interested and walk away...that will deflate her bubble and make you feel like the man you ought to feel like.
Reply:dont talk to her. let her put in the effort. she wants a chase so let her have it
Reply:dont show her your pikachoo


its too small
Reply:maybe she just wants to be friendssss :/





try calling herr