I like this girl, but she is sooooo confusing, what do you think?

i'm a 20 year old guy,There's this girl, i knew back in grammar school, but didnt actually know her, jus knew who she was, hadnt seen her in a long time. i saw her at the gym bout a month ago and we started talkin. for the next 3 days, she constantly IMed me, left me facebok comments, said she wanted to hang out, and gave me her number witout me even asking for it. We hang out, i try to make a move on her and she backs off. So now everytime i try to talk to her she jus says she has to go right away or jus doesnt answer, so i apologized for makin her feel uncomfortable and she said its fine. SO i saw her at the gym a week ago for the first time since we hung out. As soon as she sees me she asks me to go on the treadmill with her, then asks me if i wanna workout abs and legs wit her, etc etc. And she was going wherever i was going at the gym. anddd even asked me to go to a %26amp; p with her loll. but ever since then she hasnt contacted me once. im jus confused cause she sendin mixed signals

I like this girl, but she is sooooo confusing, what do you think?
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Reply:haaaahaa...sorry, but she's sending you very mixed signals. She seems to be afraid to get close to you, but there is somethign there...just ask her if she's meaning to send you signals, (just not in those words, i guess), and if not, just ask her if she likes you, and would like to go ut again, because i think it's the only way to get a straight answer...but if i were you, and a man, i would move on...she seems like she's gonna come with some sort of problems.
Reply:wow...she is confusing. I am a girl myself so i have a few ideas why shes doing that. I have a lot of guy friends that i IM and one time, this guy thought i liked him, so he asked me out. When i said no, he flipped out, and sent me mean txts and stuff. So maybe this girl just wants to be friends...but i would definitely ask her....good luck
Reply:I'm confuse here my self! Ask her why she is making things so confussing here! I don't know whats going on here! There are mixed signals here! She sounds like a tease to me! Talk to her and see whats going on here! Best of Luck!
Reply:Chicks!! they are all so confusing. I wouldn't worry about it, she obviously likes you. She's just taking it slow. Let her take the lead and follow along. Things will work themselves out.
Reply:she's probably confused about what she wants..





next time you see her, tell her that you kinda like her but are confused because of how she's acting..ask her if she wants to be friends or if she wants to get to know you..
Reply:Female game player--it's rare that they are this good. You could have a lot of fun with her. Keep talking to her and make sure you stand up for yourself--don't go along with everything she suggests. It will take you a while to win her respect, but when you do, a relationship with her could be really intense. (And if she ever stands you up, tell her it was no problem--and give her a story about the great time you had instead. This is all a power play--hot then cold--don't let her tricks work on you, but don't start messing with her back. Just act like you enjoy being with her, but you don't need her--you are having a great life without her.) She'll either get bored and move on, or decide that you are actually man enough for her and she'll stop the games and start to get real.





If it doesn't work out, the experience will be valuable. You shouldn't stop looking for a girlfriend (don't wait on her!), but don't go running away either.
Reply:Wow, I'm so sorry to hear of your dilemma. These situations are what at times give ladies a bad reputation.





It sounds to me like this girl doesn't know what she wants, and is playing mind games with you. She can't make up her mind and she's running hot and cold.





The question is, how do you feel about her, and her current behavior? Do you like her enough to give it a go and put up with her games?





If so, be honest with her. Direct is always the best policy. Tell her that you are interested in pursuing something but aren't making sense of her mixed signals. If she is worth anything, she will stop behaving the way she is and be more respectful towards your feelings.





If you don't think it's worth pursuing, it may sound cruel, but a clean break might be the best idea. Change your gym (or go when you know she won't be there). Ignore her e-mails, texts, IM's and social networking invitations. It may take time for her to get the message (some people are dense) but she should eventually take the hint.





Good luck to you. :-)
Reply:Dude, i will say stay away from her and make yourself difficult to get for her. Looks like she wants you at her convenience. The more you get involved with someone who is confused, the more complicated the life gets and you spend the rest of your life trying to solve the mystery. Treat her like just your normal friend. You will find things fall in place automatically and you will be very happy. Dont make yourself available easily and always. Hope this helps. You are just 20. If not this, there are other hot cute girls out there. Dont worry. Chill and enjoy life.
Reply:yea she just messing with u and not intrested in u she kinda just looking for a buddy or just a little flirty thing or she just wants someone to hang with when she out in the open and really just playing with u or playing hard to get us woman are complicated so just ask her stright out or she will keep playing games with you.
Reply:i dont know what you do when you say when you make a move, but she sounds nice and cus she aint so easy, this might mean that she wants to build a relationship wid her. Just go out wid her take to some sik places see what happens. You got nuttin to lose. Just flirt wid her and see what she does. If she flirts bak obiously dis is a good sign
Reply:Wow.. that is weird. Is it because in the times that you tried to approach her, she was with other friends or other people and she was too embarassed to show others that she and you like eachother? Because she's afraid of others making fun of you both? and in the gym, maybe she approached you because she saw that none of her friends/classmates were there. Just be patient. If she doesn't like it when you approach her, then just let her approach you. Good luck!
Reply:It sounds like she is just playing games with you. Or maybe she doesn't know weather or not she likes you like that yet. Just ask her why she is acting like this and what is up.
Reply:she just wants to feel better knowing yer chasing her





dont





she doesnt care abt you





this hapopens to me all the time





so i asked some girls i know why they do this


and they say becuase its fun to see how many guys will get yer #... its like a contest to see how many guys are calling htem





stop calling her, shes a bore

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