Saturday, November 14, 2009

I like this girl, but she is soooo confusing, what do you think?

i'm a 20 year old guy,There's this girl, i knew back in grammar school, but didnt actually know her, jus knew who she was, hadnt seen her in a long time. i saw her at the gym bout a month ago and we started talkin. for the next 3 days, she constantly IMed me, left me facebok comments, said she wanted to hang out, and gave me her number witout me even asking for it. We hang out, i try to make a move on her and she backs off. So now everytime i try to talk to her she jus says she has to go right away or jus doesnt answer, so i apologized for makin her feel uncomfortable and she said its fine. SO i saw her at the gym a week ago for the first time since we hung out. As soon as she sees me she asks me to go on the treadmill with her, then asks me if i wanna workout abs and legs wit her, etc etc. And she was going wherever i was going at the gym. anddd even asked me to go to a %26amp; p with her loll. but ever since then she hasnt contacted me once. im jus confused cause she sendin mixed signal

I like this girl, but she is soooo confusing, what do you think?
Obviously you laid it on pretty thick going in for the move right away. She probably either liked you or thought you were cool "friend" potential. You made the move on her and she got freaked so she backed off...not wanting to send you signals that she likes you like a g/f-b/f thing. Don't be ashamed in what you did, it's best to let a girl know from the get go that you are interested in her physically and not JUST emotionally. The last thing you want to do with a girl you like is JUST be her friend...you'll hear about all her dating troubles and such.





Next time don't physically make the move...but hint that you aren't looking to be friends...and either all or nothing. Don't settle....if she isn't interested....move on! Million girls out there for you bud!
Reply:don get invloved w/ sm1 who takes 1 step forward an 5 steps back dats all i'm gonna say.


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