I like this girl, but she is soooo confusing, what do you think?

i'm a 20 year old guy and this is the weirdest thing ever,There's this girl, i knew about 10 years ago back in grammar school, hadnt seen her in a long time. i saw her at the gym bout a month ago and we started talkin. for the next 3 days, she constantly IMed me, left me facebok comments, said she wanted to hang out, and gave me her number witout me even asking for it. We hang out, it was goin good, i try to make a move on her and she backs off. So now everytime i try to talk to her she jus says she has to go right away or jus doesnt answer, so i apologized for makin her feel uncomfortable and she said its fine. SO i saw her at the gym yesterday for the first time since we hung out. We hadnt talked in about 2 weeks. As soon as she sees me she asks me to go on the treadmill with her, then asks me if i wanna do abs wit her and legs, etc etc. And she was going wherever i was going at the gym. anddd even asked me to go to a %26amp; p with her loll.. im jus confused cause she sendin mixed signals

I like this girl, but she is soooo confusing, what do you think?
She confuses me too.


If you like her just keep hanging out with her.


Be patient and let her make the first move.
Reply:she doesnt know what she wants.. so the best thing to do is just hangout with as a friend.. and not try to make a move... and if she trys to make a move do that same thing shes doing.. just leave or what ever then she will be like wtf mate.. then tell this is how you were making me feel.. why
Reply:borderline personality, or just a woman's raging hormones.
Reply:in the end. girls are complicated. THE END!





bottom of the line is.. just be normal. go with the flow :)
Reply:this is confusing??!! sounds like she doesent know what she wants. but i think there are two possibilities either she likes you but sometimes shes outgoing and then at times she gets shy (and is probably afraid of admitting she likes you) or she just likes you as a friend and shes probably trying to be closer friends but nothing romantic


OR im srry to say but theres this one other possibility that she may be just using you temporary :( that won`tbe nice of her so i hope its not this ^
Reply:SHE IS NOT A NORMAL PERSON
Reply:Sounds like she may have a boyfriend, but the relationship is on the rocks and she doesnt know what she wants yet
Reply:wow she is confusing ...um i would of told straight up and say wat's the deal "do u like me or not because i dont like when someone play with my feelings" or she is probably not ready but still wants that connection or flirtness with you...i tjink if u keep on flieting w/her it might go okay
Reply:i would say,, when she wants to be a slut she calls you,,no jk,,


i think she is just trying to get to know you better and she is just afraid if you are still weird(if you where in grammer school),,she must feel fine around you with others and just when the time is right,, she doesnt know wat to do,,


i would say,,forget about her,, but if she is really nice and you really like her then dont forget about her
Reply:so what if you ask her out and she says no? then you just apologize and you go write back to where you were ..there is nothing wrong with that





as a girl i would think you are giving her mixed messages and you might think she pulled back because she didn't know what you wanted from her so just be honest with her


i hate it when guys are too shy to ask like i have had that happen to me before and it's not cool


just ask the girl ..goo for it ...and it's better to look back and say i asked her and she said no then to say oh my god i regret that i didn't even try asking her and then you are going to be wondering with the " what ifs"





GO FOR IT!!!!


HAVE NO REGRETS


YOU ONLY HAVE ONE LIFE TO LIVE SO DO THE BEST YOU CAN DO TO ENJOY IT TO THE MAX


go for what you want and BOOOOHOOO if she says no whatever you just brush it off and play it cool


bon courage!!
Reply:Girls are indeed a confusing stuff. Best way is to be normal to her in ur behaviour. Be indifferent in ur reactions to her. Take her to some place where u both can talk peacefully about urself and try to gather some information about her past, which will help to analyze her nature. Do this think carefully without her being suspicious about it.





Once u will cultivate some good close relationship with her she might start to trust u again. I think the incident of ur moving onto her is still at the back of her mind and she is Consious about ur presence.





Plz give me the updates!!!








Cya....
Reply:seems she may b hot and cold


one minute its this way


next minute its not..


slow down on everyday communications


she will b wondering why u havent called tex etc..


but if u didnt want things 2 go further and she seems clingy


she may have some issues..dont mess with that..
Reply:In the 2 week period in which you did not have contact, seems she must have re-evaluated what she wants from this relationship.....sounds like she made up her mind that she is interested now."Absence makes the heart grow fonder."