What do you think about this weird situation? (and im not out to just hook up with this girl then leave her)?

i'm a 20 year old guy and this is the weirdest thing ever,There's this girl, i knew about 10 years ago back in grammar school, hadnt seen her in a long time. i saw her at the gym bout a month ago and we started talkin. for the next 3 days, she constantly IMed me, left me facebok comments, said she wanted to hang out, and gave me her number witout me even asking for it. We hang out, it was goin good, i try to make a move on her and she backs off. So now everytime i try to talk to her she jus says she has to go right away or jus doesnt answer, so i apologized for makin her feel uncomfortable and she said its fine. SO i saw her at the gym yesterday for the first time since we hung out. We hadnt talked in about 2 weeks. As soon as she sees me she asks me to go on the treadmill with her, then asks me if i wanna do abs wit her and legs, etc etc. And she was going wherever i was going at the gym. anddd even asked me to go to a %26amp; p with her loll.. im jus confused cause she sendin mixed signals

What do you think about this weird situation? (and im not out to just hook up with this girl then leave her)?
she probably just likes you as a friend and it weirded her out for awhile when you made your move.
Reply:She probably just wants a really good friend. Guys need to understand that girls can be clingy to friends just the same as to boyfriends. She isn't meaning to send mix signals she just probably wasn't thinking that the way she was behaving may be confusing to you.
Reply:mayb she just wants your friendship,,or wait n let her make the next move,,sounds like shes into u,,so good luck,,love is a kind of fickle thing..
Reply:I would also be confused... either this girl doesn't know what she wants or is just leading you on. Other than that I have no idea what to tell you...
Reply:She just wants to be friends with you. You were after more than that and she stopped you. Don't make another "move" and you should be fine.
Reply:Just get drunk with her sometime and see what happens.





Alot of people slip things out when they are tanked...





Or maybe she will make a move when she is tanked
Reply:i think seh has a crush on you but she confused. she is not sure wether you are going to reject or accept any move she makes towards you. i dont know, maybe you have been giving her mixed feelings, like you are interested in her then suddenly not. give it time and maybe get to talk to her
Reply:Well no one knows what she's thinking. My suggestion is just for you not to act overly needy.





I'm sure you would want to hang out with her in a social setting. So instead of saying, let's go out to dinner, invite her to a party.


Say, me and my friends are going to this party on Friday night and I'd like to see you there, you're friends can come too.





This way it'll make you look like you have social value and it will also make her question whether you actually like her.





If she refuses, it probably means she isn't ready to take things to the next level and maybe it will work in the future.
Reply:i think she likes u but u shoudlnt of made a move on her..
Reply:well, i don't think she's sending mixed signals, i think maybe she's persuing a friendship, wants to get to know you again, so she wants to hang out with you.





YOU made the move wayyyy too fast. she's obviously not a fast girl, which is a good thing... but even if i were interested in a guy while i was single, and hung out, and on that first day of hanging out he tried to make a move on me, that is pretty uncomfortable. So just take it slowly with this one. your probably not used to things not going your way, but this is a good thing my friend.. don't let it go!
Reply:Either she is confused about what she wants,


or... she justs wants to be friends, or still needs time to get to know you better before anything else happens.
Reply:Slow down! Be friends first! You will never know what kind of a relationship it could lead to! Communicate! If you can't talk and tell her how you feel, but you're making moves on her, it's probably not going to work out, because girls want to be wanted for who they are within, not just sex!! I wish you the very best!!