I like this girl, but she is sooo confusing, what do you think?

i'm a 20 year old guy,There's this girl, i knew back in grammar school, but didnt actually know her, jus knew who she was, hadnt seen her in a long time. i saw her at the gym bout a month ago and we started talkin. for the next 3 days, she constantly IMed me, left me facebok comments, said she wanted to hang out, and gave me her number witout me even asking for it. We hang out, i try to make a move on her and she backs off. So now everytime i try to talk to her she jus says she has to go right away or jus doesnt answer, so i apologized for makin her feel uncomfortable and she said its fine. SO i saw her at the gym a week ago for the first time since we hung out. As soon as she sees me she asks me to go on the treadmill with her, then asks me if i wanna workout abs and legs wit her, etc etc. And she was going wherever i was going at the gym. anddd even asked me to go to a %26amp; p with her loll. but ever since then she hasnt contacted me once. im jus confused cause she sendin mixed signals

I like this girl, but she is sooo confusing, what do you think?
It sounds like either:


1. She doesn't like you, but she wants you to like her





or





2. She likes you, but is confused about what to do
Reply:i dont kno about this one.... i guess you could try to talk to her and see if there is something wrong.... good luck
Reply:Maybe she just doesnt know what to do yet.Give her some time.Do you like her?
Reply:Let her know how you feel and get an answer. Don't let her string you along or you might regret it. Is it her or the sex you're after?
Reply:have u tried talking to her about it, does she no u like her, and is hse already IN a relationship.
Reply:sounds like shes flirting, ONLY wants to flirt. and was your MOVE too much- next time make it subtle. BIG moves (touchy feely) on first time hanging out can scare someone off
Reply:sounds to me like, either she cant make her mind up whether she wants you or not, or she's just playing around with you.





either way its not fair for her to lead you on, then keep turning you away everytime you make an advance towards her, maybe you should just ask her nicely, and try to find out whats up...





maybe she's just feeling a little lonely, or maybe she's just playing around either way, the only true way to find out is to talk to her about it =]





hope that helps
Reply:well maybe she doesnt want to rush things, i think u should just take it nice and slow and then if she likes u she will come to you,


and yes us girls are confusing and sometimes we do give or mixed signals but thats only because sometimes either we are to scared to commit, or we dont want to get hurt or we just really dont know what we want at that moment,


but yeah just sit back relaxe and if she likes u then she will come to you,


hope i helped some


if not sorry,


but the best of luck to u!
Reply:as a girl, I know: some girls just love the thrill of the chase. They like to see a guy get interested in them and once they take the bait, the girl sort of loses interest. sometimes people look for some harmless flirting. why dont u ask her upfront what hew motives are?
Reply:it's either she's hiding something...r she doesnt like you in that kind of way....are just the simple fact she's scared try consulting her about the problem
Reply:dude its a woman what the hell do you expect there friggin nuts if you try to make any sence of this ur gonna go crazy just let it play out im thinkin she wants to chase but ur meeting her half way act as if you dont care if you see her she will call they all do its part of there game they all want what they cant have let her see you with another woman at the gym that will stirr the pot LOL
Reply:I think she just likes you as a work out partner.. Are you teaching her things she does not normally do??
Reply:good question, what is wrong with women anyway? If you act nice, look good, have a good personality, and a career. They never seem impressed, women are stupid!


How bout this, just ignore her for a month straight, she'll try her best to get attention from you. Do what she is doing to you, make her have a taste of her own medicine.

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