What do you think on this unusual situation?

i'm 20 years old and this is the weirdest thing ever,There's this girl, i knew about 10 years ago back in grammar school, hadnt seen her in a long time. i saw her at the gym bout a month ago and we started talkin. for the next 3 days, she constantly IMed me, left me facebok comments, said she wanted to hang out, and gave me her number witout me even asking for it. We hang out, it was goin good, i try to make a move on her and she backs off. So now everytime i try to talk to her she jus says she has to go right away or jus doesnt answer, so i apologized for makin her feel uncomfortable and she said its fine. SO i saw her at the gym yesterday for the first time since we hung out. We hadnt talked in about 2 weeks. As soon as she sees me she asks me to go on the treadmill with her, then asks me if i wanna do abs wit her and legs, etc etc. And she was going wherever i was going at the gym. anddd even asked me to go to a %26amp; p with her lolll.. im jus confused cuz she sendin mixed signals

What do you think on this unusual situation?
maybe she just wants to hang out and nothing more. she is probably extremely happy to see u again after so long and wants to spend time with u catching up and talking about how ur lives r working out etc. it doesnt mean she wants a rleationship! just be glad she wants to hang out with u and be a good friend to her. if things were meant to work out they will just stand by her and hang out with her and have fun!
Reply:YOU screwed up--you had your chance--it isn't a big mystery--she was hoping for a nice guy and you turned out to be a jerk--NO mystery to us. She could be gay--she could have a guy she is dating--hey--she could just NOT like you and she is stuck looking at you in the gym. IT AIN"T WORKING_-so cool it . Next time you "HANG OUT"--find something interesting to do--be a mature person and spend a few bucks having fun and showing a young lady a nice time. There are no mixed signals--you are wasting time--that is the answer--grow up and move on.
Reply:Man, what did you do. You must have come on way to fast. Sounds like she likes you but she's not into dropping her pants. Guess you'll have to take time and date her or have a relationship or move on. She's not into players.
Reply:that is strange


two theories


a) She just wants to be friends


b) She wants a relationship but wants things to move slowly


she wants to get to know you better before you do anything sexual
Reply:Seems like she just want to be friends at the moment, if you like her just give her some time, just get to know each other as friends. She might begin to feel something for you later on, but just dont push her. Give her time. Relationships dont last long bu t friendship does. Good Luck
Reply:One of her friends may have shown an interest in you so she now wants to establish her territory in regard to you enjoy dont worry ~~
Reply:RU a guy or a girl?





Sounds like she has had something going on in her life for those few weeks and she doesn't feel she knows you well enough to talk to you.





Forget the unusual bit this time and build the friendship. If it happens again and she wont explain, consider how closely you really want to know her.





If you r also a female, maybe she is scared and may not be ready to announce who she is to the world.