PLEASE ANSWER!!! Where is he meeting these girls......?

My ex-boyfriend keeps adding new girls on this internet site called Facebook. It’s NOT a dating thing, its more of a networking tool where you search for people and add them to your list of friends. If you search for a certain person, and if you have facebok, then you click to add them. Once you add them, that person will get an email saying exactly who added you. I have NOT added my ex-bf cuz I don’t wanna seem desperate and cuz HE dumped me. Back to the story, I check his profile sometimes and he has many fairly many girls. Under some of the girls names it says he worked with or met at school. BUT there are some girls on his list like 5 or 6, where it says he met RANDOMLY, I’m assuming at clubs etc. My question is, WHY hasn’t he searched for me and tried to add me? I know I sound crazy but it doesn’t make sense cuz he still contacts me on msn even though HE ended it. Also just 2 months ago he called and set up a plan to go see a movie with him.

PLEASE ANSWER!!! Where is he meeting these girls......?
mabye he just hasn't thought about it. don't ruin your friendship over him not adding you to an internet cite.
Reply:You've asked this question before.
Reply:Maybe he didn't add you because he figures you'll look at his profile and see all the girls he's been talking to. After all if HE ended it, he probably doesn't want to lead you on too much. I'm sure its not an accident.
Reply:Because you arent trophy material to him.Thats why and he may not know youre checking up on him, OR he does know and is trying to manipulate you with jealousy.It can be his way of saying"look at all these girls I can have at the snap of my fingers!Now if you will put out, you can have first place otherwise..........nothing".He is probably hoping youll change your mind about the "saving yourself for marriage" part.
Reply:Maybe you dont have a profile for him to add...





maybe you're under a fake name....
Reply:not sure where but . . .





he calls you when he wants to reflect on the good times you had together and not think of the bad.





as for not adding you, it's because he doesn't want to get back together and by adding you and hanging out with you sometimes, he believes will give you the wrong message. A message that maybe he likes you romantically; which he doesn't.





hope this theory helps.