What do you think about this unusual situation? (and im not out to just get with this girl then leave her)?

i'm a 20 year old guy and this is the weirdest thing ever,There's this girl, i knew about 10 years ago back in grammar school, hadnt seen her in a long time. i saw her at the gym bout a month ago and we started talkin. for the next 3 days, she constantly IMed me, left me facebok comments, said she wanted to hang out, and gave me her number witout me even asking for it. We hang out, it was goin good, i try to make a move on her and she backs off. So now everytime i try to talk to her she jus says she has to go right away or jus doesnt answer, so i apologized for makin her feel uncomfortable and she said its fine. SO i saw her at the gym yesterday for the first time since we hung out. We hadnt talked in about 2 weeks. As soon as she sees me she asks me to go on the treadmill with her, then asks me if i wanna do abs wit her and legs, etc etc. And she was going wherever i was going at the gym. anddd even asked me to go to a %26amp; p with her lolll.. im jus confused cuz she sendin mixed signals

What do you think about this unusual situation? (and im not out to just get with this girl then leave her)?
Dude, she really likes you a lot as a friend, but she is not wanting to date you.
Reply:Ok, jsut ask her what is going on. Say I know I moved to fast and I don't want to make you uncomfortable again. Can we go out again. Take it slow!!
Reply:She likes you but not sexualy
Reply:Maybe she acted like that because she's been seriously hurt before and doesn't want to take anymore chances. It seems as if she really likes you so just don't rush into things and let her make the moves on you. Everything will work out just fine in the end... if it's meant to be.
Reply:She was on her period all last week. Now she's ready for ya.
Reply:It can be frustrating, but often those mixed signals are a girl's way of saying, "I'm really interested in you, but I don't know if I want to put you in the 'friend' or 'boyfriend' category yet." Also, girls behave this way with guys they want to get to know on a completely nonsexual, casual level.





My advice: spend time with her if you wish, but expect nothing, and let her take the lead. If she decides that she wants to raise the level of your relationship, she'll start sending stronger sexual signals or make some moves herself.





A note of caution: A rare number of women send mixed signals deliberately, either out of malice or due to some other personal issues. If she constantly raises the ante sexually to get you to respond, and then swiftly shuts you down the moment you do, you need to bow out of that relationship gracefully.





Good luck!
Reply:all i can say is she doesn't like you!! it's only an ego trip with you!
Reply:maybe she's playing hard to get or she just likes u as a friend. maybe try to get closer to her do things you guys usually do and as you guys go your relationship will progresses and you'll get closer and closer and maybe close enough to date