I like this girl, but she is sooooo confusing, what do you think?

i'm a 20 year old guy,There's this girl, i knew back in grammar school, but didnt actually know her, jus knew who she was, hadnt seen her in a long time. i saw her at the gym bout a month ago and we started talkin. for the next 3 days, she constantly IMed me, left me facebok comments, said she wanted to hang out, and gave me her number witout me even asking for it. We hang out, i try to make a move on her and she backs off. So now everytime i try to talk to her she jus says she has to go right away or jus doesnt answer, so i apologized for makin her feel uncomfortable and she said its fine. SO i saw her at the gym a week ago for the first time since we hung out. As soon as she sees me she asks me to go on the treadmill with her, then asks me if i wanna workout abs and legs wit her, etc etc. And she was going wherever i was going at the gym. anddd even asked me to go to a %26amp; p with her loll. but ever since then she hasnt contacted me once. im jus confused cause she sendin mixed signals

I like this girl, but she is sooooo confusing, what do you think?
I can almost promise you she has someone else. Even if they aren't 100% committed, there is another guy. That is why she is acting like that.
Reply:This is common with women, they don't know what they want. Furthermore she can't figure out what you want either. From what you explained it seems like the only move you've put in so far was trying to get in her pants. She probably hasn't said anything because she's waiting for you to ask her to do something. I say you should get two tickets to something and tell her a friend bailed on you. DO NOT TRY TO PUT THE MOVES ON HER. If she fled the first time just let her make the first physical move after a few dates she will. relax, have fun, and realize that there are plenty more if this one doesn't work.
Reply:Maybe she's just shy and afraid of getting hurt. Or, she's just trying to mess with you..
Reply:i think she is teasing you
Reply:Perhaps she just wants to take it slow, but then felt bad about it.
Reply:girls can be confusing and she herself doesnt know what to do. Just try talking to her and start out with being friends. She probably thought everything was being rushed but thinks she should still be friends so yeah
Reply:Ask her what is wrong or text message her.
Reply:A girl can LOVE someone as a friend - truly, truly, deeply and be purely platonically. She might have wanted to be friends with you and realized she was giving the wrong signals so she backed off. Then when she saw you again she probably remembered why she wanted to be friends and treated you as such. I think if you want to know whats going on, if it IS more than friends than you contact her. See if she wants to hang out again.
Reply:Very confuseing. Just wait and see
Reply:I'm guessing she likes you, but as a friend or something more I don't know. If you want to try to make a move on her, do it slowly, and get her more comfortable around you. Mixed signals could also mean she's also unsure about this. Whatever you decide, don't rush on it. Good things have to start out with a steady base.
Reply:sounds like she likes you but id wait it out
Reply:i think she might just want to be good friends or mabye she is just really shy
Reply:Wow, that is confusing... Maybe she is confused herself? Maybe she kinda likes you but won't admit it, and gets scared when you make a move on her because she hasn't admitted to herself that that's what she wants you to do? Or maybe she's just playing with you. Also, some people just are like that, hot, cold, hot, cold, it's immature but true. Probably your best move would be to find a golden middle road, meaning not be all over her, but not be cold either, just treat her in a friendly way but keep a little distance. If you stay the same way towards all the time it might help you. It won't hurt your dignity so much if she suddenly turns cold after your response to her warmth, and maybe she might respect you more for not following her whim. Of course, there's the possibility that she's just not right for you... Good luck, hope it works out somehow!
Reply:feel sorry for you mate.


she looks like a hard case. i think you should make it clear to her that you like her and ask her if she likes you and can move to the next level. if she minds this and says no then just don't worry about her. I'm sure you will find someone else.


by the way what do mean by "a %26amp; p"?
Reply:mayb she just wants to be friends with u i dunno.... some chicks are confusing for even us chicks.
Reply:We do that sometimes..SORRY. Just wait it out, if she contacts you then great, if not then let it be.
Reply:she might be confused, or seeing another guy and confused about who she likes more. spit your game more!