I like this girl, but she is sooo confusing, what do you think?

i'm a 20 year old guy and this is the weirdest thing ever,There's this girl, i knew about 10 years ago back in grammar school, hadnt seen her in a long time. i saw her at the gym bout a month ago and we started talkin. for the next 3 days, she constantly IMed me, left me facebok comments, said she wanted to hang out, and gave me her number witout me even asking for it. We hang out, it was goin good, i try to make a move on her and she backs off. So now everytime i try to talk to her she jus says she has to go right away or jus doesnt answer, so i apologized for makin her feel uncomfortable and she said its fine. SO i saw her at the gym yesterday for the first time since we hung out. We hadnt talked in about 2 weeks. As soon as she sees me she asks me to go on the treadmill with her, then asks me if i wanna do abs wit her and legs, etc etc. And she was going wherever i was going at the gym. anddd even asked me to go to a %26amp; p with her loll.. im jus confused cause she sendin mixed signals

I like this girl, but she is sooo confusing, what do you think?
Talk to her
Reply:yea talk to her. flirt.take it slow. go with the flow
Reply:I dunno dude, did you try to make a move the first time you guys hung out? Maybe you were going to fast.
Reply:She just wants to flirt and be friends, for now.





Take it slowly. Who knows what will happen.
Reply:i think so


mayb she was thinking about what to do
Reply:maybe she just wants to be friends....


if i met a guy i used to know way back when from school, i'd only wanna be friends cause thats such a weird situation...unless he was like REALLY hawt..ask her where she thinks her relationship with you is going!
Reply:Ya know, it still is ok for a female and a male to be friends and do all the things that friends do with the same sex friends. All to often these days people think that a gurl and a guy HAVE to have a sexual relationship in order to have fun and hang out. Maybe she didn't want you to make a move on her, maybe she likes to hang out and talk to you. I know a lot of people disagree with me but it is ok to be friends and thats it. More people would be a lot happier with their lives and find true love if they would understand this.





Some of these other answers are shallow...really..."unless he is really hot..."....and people still think the government is what is wrong with this country, no its ignorance.
Reply:Sounds like she was the one setting the pace and when you took the bait, she backed it down on you. This is not healthy social behavior.





Dude, the rest might be right and she may just be oblivious to the signals she was sending out to you, but there is just something not kosher about the way this sounds. This sounds like a girl with "Issues", and when I was young I set a rule for myself that was born of painful experience. Don't ever try to sleep with a woman when you think that she might be crazier than you. You may have dodged a bullet here.
Reply:i think that she was scared of moving too fast when you put the moves on her, but now realizes she likes you enough to try it again. take it slower this time, get to know her better, keep talkin and hangin, then you can go and make a move again.
Reply:it's because she has to get used to the idea of you liking her because she's not sure how she feels about you yet or just wants to be friends.
Reply:"gave me her number witout me even asking for it"


Call her up, and ask her out. She gave you her number!!!
Reply:I don't know. She could be attached or had a bad breakup. Or not ready for a relationship. Or, you never know, you haven't seen her in years. She could also prefer women instead, right?
Reply:Just because a girl wants to hang out doesn't mean she wants to date you. Most girls just want to have fun. That's what I found out.





As the saying goes, it's easy for girls to be friends with guys and not have feelings, but it's hard for us guys to be friends with girls and not develop quick feelings for them...





If she backed out the first time, then she already told you. If she's being all nice two weeks later, she probably thinks you got over it...





Sounds like an exact situation I was in a while back...Just don't focus too much on this girl. Take it as it is and don't read into her hints...Find other girls...If she really likes you, then she'll think twice..