I like this girlll, but she is sooooo confusing, what do you think?

i'm a 20 year old guy and this is the weirdest thing ever,There's this girl, i knew about 10 years ago back in grammar school, hadnt seen her in a long time. i saw her at the gym bout a month ago and we started talkin. for the next 3 days, she constantly IMed me, left me facebok comments, said she wanted to hang out, and gave me her number witout me even asking for it. We hang out, it was goin good, i try to make a move on her and she backs off. So now everytime i try to talk to her she jus says she has to go right away or jus doesnt answer, so i apologized for makin her feel uncomfortable and she said its fine. SO i saw her at the gym yesterday for the first time since we hung out. We hadnt talked in about 2 weeks. As soon as she sees me she asks me to go on the treadmill with her, then asks me if i wanna do abs wit her and legs, etc etc. And she was going wherever i was going at the gym. anddd even asked me to go to a %26amp; p with her loll.. im jus confused cause she sendin mixed signals

I like this girlll, but she is sooooo confusing, what do you think?
That is confusing... I think she likes you but doesn't want to move too fast. She wants the relationship to progress slowly. Or maybe, she was just nervous when you made a move on her and thats why she backed off. She probably was embarassed about backing off and thats why she didn't really talk to you those few days. I think, after she found out that you thought you were the wrong one, she got comfortable again. Makes sense?
Reply:u dont wanna make the same mistake again, so wait for her to make a move
Reply:Take it slower next time. She's giving you another opportunity. Let her make the first real move.
Reply:hmmm well im kinda guessing that she is one of those hard to get type people. I would wait ,don't spoil it for yourself if you really do like her.Just wait till she asks you out.
Reply:sounds like she needs company but not necessarily a bed buddy...seems she likes to chill in places with a lot of other ppl around (ie the gym and grocery store)...if ur lookin to get laid then look somewheres else cuz jus seems like she wants to be close friends without the bump and grind..
Reply:i think she probably wanted i but not yet. it scared her that you wanted it right then.. maybe?
Reply:dude! you just described my situation. its good to know im not the only one out there like that
Reply:you have to get back to her and just tell her you want her .. do it now..
Reply:maybe she just wanted a buddy to hang out with at the gym... she might like hanging out with you....but i dont think she likes you like that yet....so if you want her too, just keep hanging out with her, till she want to make a move on you.





Thats like the exact same thing that happened with my now boyfriend. We were in middle school together and hadn't seen eachother for years. Have the same friends so we bumped into eachother couple times, started hanging out, he liked me, but i didnt like him like that yet....He liked me, and i knew that, but we just used to hang out and be friends, and now i'm totally in love with him! :-D