PLEASE ANSWER!!! My EX said he wants to be friends then why is he ignoring me......?

My ex-boyfriend keeps adding new girls on this internet site called Facebook. It’s NOT a dating thing, its more of a networking tool where you search for people and add them to your list of friends. If you search for a certain person, and if you have facebok, then you click to add them. Once you add them, that person will get an email saying exactly who added you. I have NOT added my ex-bf cuz I don’t wanna seem desperate and cuz HE dumped me. Back to the story, I check his profile sometimes and he has many fairly many girls. Under some of the girls names it says he worked with or met at school. BUT there are some girls on his list like 5 or 6, where it says he met RANDOMLY, I’m assuming at clubs etc. My question is, WHY hasn’t he searched for me and tried to add me? I know I sound crazy but it doesn’t make sense cuz he still contacts me on msn even though HE ended it. Also just 2 months ago he called and set up a plan to go see a movie with him.

PLEASE ANSWER!!! My EX said he wants to be friends then why is he ignoring me......?
Its better this way, you cant be friends with an ex...To many feelings involved...
Reply:he is a prick point blank why are you making your self crazy over it find someone else to have a meaningful relationship with who will respect you and not play these idotic games with you who cares who he adds to what list i would cut all ties to him and move on
Reply:Ya even think that maybe these girls are "Friending" him ..... and he is not actively making the invites...





and dont trust a guy who ever dumps you... he'll do it again,
Reply:don't read too much into the whole myspace, facebook crap.. so who cares about that stuf, you shouldn't worry about it so much. and he may just not be adding you because you will spoil chances with another girl, from where i see it he is tryin to keep you draggin along thinking maybe, just maybe with him. granted you two have not had sex, but he still may be lonely and want to make out or just cop feels from time to time if you have ever done that. if he hasn't been with anyone for about 3-4 months he might just be lonely, no offense, and find someone he can drag along for a just in case purpose to feel loved or wanted. but that is what i see it as. i am pretty sure, because a friend of mine, just went through something similar, and i warned her and she didn't listen. and it backfired on her.
Reply:Maybe he doesn't see the big deal in it. Get on with your life..time to move on because he has. I know its hard but really..if you were meant to be then you'd be together. Sorry for sounding so harsh but that's the way it is.

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