i'm a 20 year old guy and this is the weirdest thing ever,There's this girl, i knew about 10 years ago back in grammar school, hadnt seen her in a long time. i saw her at the gym bout a month ago and we started talkin. for the next 3 days, she constantly IMed me, left me facebok comments, said she wanted to hang out, and gave me her number witout me even asking for it. We hang out, it was goin good, i try to make a move on her and she backs off. So now everytime i try to talk to her she jus says she has to go right away or jus doesnt answer, so i apologized for makin her feel uncomfortable and she said its fine. SO i saw her at the gym yesterday for the first time since we hung out. We hadnt talked in about 2 weeks. As soon as she sees me she asks me to go on the treadmill with her, then asks me if i wanna do abs wit her and legs, etc etc. And she was going wherever i was going at the gym. anddd even asked me to go to a %26amp; p with her loll.. im jus confused cause she sendin mixed signals
I like this girl, but she is soooo confusing, what do you think?
welcome to the world of women my friend. if you ever figure them out TELL ME!!!!!
Reply:wow, that is confusing.
I would try to go for it again, if she backs off again, try to look at it from another perspective, is she somehow trying to use you? (to get close to a friend of yours or to get her boyfriend jealous).
I hope this helps.
Reply:Maybe she's lonely but just for a friend and not a boyfriend.
Monday, November 16, 2009
I like this girl, but shes soooo confusing, what do you think?
i'm a 20 year old guy and this is the weirdest thing ever,There's this girl, i knew about 10 years ago back in grammar school, hadnt seen her in a long time. i saw her at the gym bout a month ago and we started talkin. for the next 3 days, she constantly IMed me, left me facebok comments, said she wanted to hang out, and gave me her number witout me even asking for it. We hang out, it was goin good, i try to make a move on her and she backs off. So now everytime i try to talk to her she jus says she has to go right away or jus doesnt answer, so i apologized for makin her feel uncomfortable and she said its fine. SO i saw her at the gym yesterday for the first time since we hung out. We hadnt talked in about 2 weeks. As soon as she sees me she asks me to go on the treadmill with her, then asks me if i wanna do abs wit her and legs, etc etc. And she was going wherever i was going at the gym. anddd even asked me to go to a %26amp; p with her loll.. im jus confused cause she sendin mixed signals
I like this girl, but shes soooo confusing, what do you think?
It is very confusing, perhaps play a little more hard ball, treat her as a friend, and enjoy the conversations and times together without any alterior motives.
See how it goes, while you guys get a chance to know each other better.
I'm sure she like's you, but her backing off is really confusing, so take things a little easier.
GL!
Reply:I guess she doesn't like it when you make the first move so let her make the first move when she's comfortable enough to do so.
Reply:I think she is using you to bouns back from a bad relatinship just be you're self and see where it goes
Reply:didnt you ask this already?
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I like this girl, but shes soooo confusing, what do you think?
It is very confusing, perhaps play a little more hard ball, treat her as a friend, and enjoy the conversations and times together without any alterior motives.
See how it goes, while you guys get a chance to know each other better.
I'm sure she like's you, but her backing off is really confusing, so take things a little easier.
GL!
Reply:I guess she doesn't like it when you make the first move so let her make the first move when she's comfortable enough to do so.
Reply:I think she is using you to bouns back from a bad relatinship just be you're self and see where it goes
Reply:didnt you ask this already?
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I like this girl, but she is sooooooo confusing, what do you think?
i'm a 20 year old guy and this is the weirdest thing ever,There's this girl, i knew about 10 years ago back in grammar school, hadnt seen her in a long time. i saw her at the gym bout a month ago and we started talkin. for the next 3 days, she constantly IMed me, left me facebok comments, said she wanted to hang out, and gave me her number witout me even asking for it. We hang out, it was goin good, i try to make a move on her and she backs off. So now everytime i try to talk to her she jus says she has to go right away or jus doesnt answer, so i apologized for makin her feel uncomfortable and she said its fine. SO i saw her at the gym yesterday for the first time since we hung out. We hadnt talked in about 2 weeks. As soon as she sees me she asks me to go on the treadmill with her, then asks me if i wanna do abs wit her and legs, etc etc. And she was going wherever i was going at the gym. anddd even asked me to go to a %26amp; p with her loll.. im jus confused cause she sendin mixed signals
I like this girl, but she is sooooooo confusing, what do you think?
i think she jus wants 2 b friends
I like this girl, but she is sooooooo confusing, what do you think?
i think she jus wants 2 b friends
I like this girl, but she is soooo confusing, what's her deal?
i'm a 20 year old guy and this is the weirdest thing ever,There's this girl, i knew about 10 years ago back in grammar school, hadnt seen her in a long time. i saw her at the gym bout a month ago and we started talkin. for the next 3 days, she constantly IMed me, left me facebok comments, said she wanted to hang out, and gave me her number witout me even asking for it. We hang out, it was goin good, i try to make a move on her and she backs off. So now everytime i try to talk to her she jus says she has to go right away or jus doesnt answer, so i apologized for makin her feel uncomfortable and she said its fine. SO i saw her at the gym yesterday for the first time since we hung out. We hadnt talked in about 2 weeks. As soon as she sees me she asks me to go on the treadmill with her, then asks me if i wanna do abs wit her and legs, etc etc. And she was going wherever i was going at the gym. anddd even asked me to go to a %26amp; p with her loll.. im jus confused cause she sendin mixed signals
I like this girl, but she is soooo confusing, what's her deal?
mayb she wants to be mates but doesnt really no how to act about it? if backed away then just keep it friendly for now. wait for her
Reply:I think what happened before when you tried to make a move on her took her by surprise and that was her reaction to it, she probably felt a bit silly about it herself %26amp; thats why she acted the way she did afterwards.
Maybe she didn't actually want that so fast, but kind of wants to initiate something with you, so in this case your going to have to let her do the initiation for a little or even better, maybe talk to her %26amp; ask her what she would like from you (I.E. A relationship).
Sounds like she likes you, but doesn't really know what she wants, so you have to let her come to you in her own time, if by that time she comes to you %26amp; you've moved, on, well thats how it is %26amp; maybe you weren't meant to be.
But worry about it less %26amp; take each day as it comes, don't be too forward, I mean, she knows now clearly you like her right, so if she likes you too, she will let you know at some point, but it's her that has to do this.
Good luck !
I like this girl, but she is soooo confusing, what's her deal?
mayb she wants to be mates but doesnt really no how to act about it? if backed away then just keep it friendly for now. wait for her
Reply:I think what happened before when you tried to make a move on her took her by surprise and that was her reaction to it, she probably felt a bit silly about it herself %26amp; thats why she acted the way she did afterwards.
Maybe she didn't actually want that so fast, but kind of wants to initiate something with you, so in this case your going to have to let her do the initiation for a little or even better, maybe talk to her %26amp; ask her what she would like from you (I.E. A relationship).
Sounds like she likes you, but doesn't really know what she wants, so you have to let her come to you in her own time, if by that time she comes to you %26amp; you've moved, on, well thats how it is %26amp; maybe you weren't meant to be.
But worry about it less %26amp; take each day as it comes, don't be too forward, I mean, she knows now clearly you like her right, so if she likes you too, she will let you know at some point, but it's her that has to do this.
Good luck !
JErsey girll?
i used to live in jersey but now i live in penns. i looked at facebok pics of my old friends and they have such exciting lives. they have boyfriends, and dont mind drinking every now and then and all... i wish i could have some excitement like that. i wouldnt go overboard, but i feel like im not a jersey girl anymore... what do you think...?
JErsey girll?
Maybe they are lying.
N there are trying to make you go back..by thinking they are happy and having fun all the time.....which maybe they probably miss you a lot and their lives are boring with out you.
If not....
You'll make new and better friends in no time.
Reply:I think that (living in PA and knowing someone who lives in Jersey) PA will always be better and funner than Jersey. You just need to look for some new stuff to do and make your Jersey friends jealous because in PA, we party hard and live it up. :]
Reply:youll find new friends and they prob look at your page and think the same thing about you too
Reply:Hairspray your bangs up in the front and get an IROC-Z. Voila! Jersey style
JErsey girll?
Maybe they are lying.
N there are trying to make you go back..by thinking they are happy and having fun all the time.....which maybe they probably miss you a lot and their lives are boring with out you.
If not....
You'll make new and better friends in no time.
Reply:I think that (living in PA and knowing someone who lives in Jersey) PA will always be better and funner than Jersey. You just need to look for some new stuff to do and make your Jersey friends jealous because in PA, we party hard and live it up. :]
Reply:youll find new friends and they prob look at your page and think the same thing about you too
Reply:Hairspray your bangs up in the front and get an IROC-Z. Voila! Jersey style
I like this girl, but she is sooooo confusing, what do you think?
i'm a 20 year old guy,There's this girl, i knew back in grammar school, but didnt actually know her, jus knew who she was, hadnt seen her in a long time. i saw her at the gym bout a month ago and we started talkin. for the next 3 days, she constantly IMed me, left me facebok comments, said she wanted to hang out, and gave me her number witout me even asking for it. We hang out, i try to make a move on her and she backs off. So now everytime i try to talk to her she jus says she has to go right away or jus doesnt answer, so i apologized for makin her feel uncomfortable and she said its fine. SO i saw her at the gym a week ago for the first time since we hung out. As soon as she sees me she asks me to go on the treadmill with her, then asks me if i wanna workout abs and legs wit her, etc etc. And she was going wherever i was going at the gym. anddd even asked me to go to a %26amp; p with her loll. but ever since then she hasnt contacted me once. im jus confused cause she sendin mixed signals
I like this girl, but she is sooooo confusing, what do you think?
Ask her to go to church with you.
Reply:haaaahaa...sorry, but she's sending you very mixed signals. She seems to be afraid to get close to you, but there is somethign there...just ask her if she's meaning to send you signals, (just not in those words, i guess), and if not, just ask her if she likes you, and would like to go ut again, because i think it's the only way to get a straight answer...but if i were you, and a man, i would move on...she seems like she's gonna come with some sort of problems.
Reply:wow...she is confusing. I am a girl myself so i have a few ideas why shes doing that. I have a lot of guy friends that i IM and one time, this guy thought i liked him, so he asked me out. When i said no, he flipped out, and sent me mean txts and stuff. So maybe this girl just wants to be friends...but i would definitely ask her....good luck
Reply:I'm confuse here my self! Ask her why she is making things so confussing here! I don't know whats going on here! There are mixed signals here! She sounds like a tease to me! Talk to her and see whats going on here! Best of Luck!
Reply:Chicks!! they are all so confusing. I wouldn't worry about it, she obviously likes you. She's just taking it slow. Let her take the lead and follow along. Things will work themselves out.
Reply:she's probably confused about what she wants..
next time you see her, tell her that you kinda like her but are confused because of how she's acting..ask her if she wants to be friends or if she wants to get to know you..
Reply:Female game player--it's rare that they are this good. You could have a lot of fun with her. Keep talking to her and make sure you stand up for yourself--don't go along with everything she suggests. It will take you a while to win her respect, but when you do, a relationship with her could be really intense. (And if she ever stands you up, tell her it was no problem--and give her a story about the great time you had instead. This is all a power play--hot then cold--don't let her tricks work on you, but don't start messing with her back. Just act like you enjoy being with her, but you don't need her--you are having a great life without her.) She'll either get bored and move on, or decide that you are actually man enough for her and she'll stop the games and start to get real.
If it doesn't work out, the experience will be valuable. You shouldn't stop looking for a girlfriend (don't wait on her!), but don't go running away either.
Reply:Wow, I'm so sorry to hear of your dilemma. These situations are what at times give ladies a bad reputation.
It sounds to me like this girl doesn't know what she wants, and is playing mind games with you. She can't make up her mind and she's running hot and cold.
The question is, how do you feel about her, and her current behavior? Do you like her enough to give it a go and put up with her games?
If so, be honest with her. Direct is always the best policy. Tell her that you are interested in pursuing something but aren't making sense of her mixed signals. If she is worth anything, she will stop behaving the way she is and be more respectful towards your feelings.
If you don't think it's worth pursuing, it may sound cruel, but a clean break might be the best idea. Change your gym (or go when you know she won't be there). Ignore her e-mails, texts, IM's and social networking invitations. It may take time for her to get the message (some people are dense) but she should eventually take the hint.
Good luck to you. :-)
Reply:Dude, i will say stay away from her and make yourself difficult to get for her. Looks like she wants you at her convenience. The more you get involved with someone who is confused, the more complicated the life gets and you spend the rest of your life trying to solve the mystery. Treat her like just your normal friend. You will find things fall in place automatically and you will be very happy. Dont make yourself available easily and always. Hope this helps. You are just 20. If not this, there are other hot cute girls out there. Dont worry. Chill and enjoy life.
Reply:yea she just messing with u and not intrested in u she kinda just looking for a buddy or just a little flirty thing or she just wants someone to hang with when she out in the open and really just playing with u or playing hard to get us woman are complicated so just ask her stright out or she will keep playing games with you.
Reply:i dont know what you do when you say when you make a move, but she sounds nice and cus she aint so easy, this might mean that she wants to build a relationship wid her. Just go out wid her take to some sik places see what happens. You got nuttin to lose. Just flirt wid her and see what she does. If she flirts bak obiously dis is a good sign
Reply:Wow.. that is weird. Is it because in the times that you tried to approach her, she was with other friends or other people and she was too embarassed to show others that she and you like eachother? Because she's afraid of others making fun of you both? and in the gym, maybe she approached you because she saw that none of her friends/classmates were there. Just be patient. If she doesn't like it when you approach her, then just let her approach you. Good luck!
Reply:It sounds like she is just playing games with you. Or maybe she doesn't know weather or not she likes you like that yet. Just ask her why she is acting like this and what is up.
Reply:she just wants to feel better knowing yer chasing her
dont
she doesnt care abt you
this hapopens to me all the time
so i asked some girls i know why they do this
and they say becuase its fun to see how many guys will get yer #... its like a contest to see how many guys are calling htem
stop calling her, shes a bore
dental plans
I like this girl, but she is sooooo confusing, what do you think?
Ask her to go to church with you.
Reply:haaaahaa...sorry, but she's sending you very mixed signals. She seems to be afraid to get close to you, but there is somethign there...just ask her if she's meaning to send you signals, (just not in those words, i guess), and if not, just ask her if she likes you, and would like to go ut again, because i think it's the only way to get a straight answer...but if i were you, and a man, i would move on...she seems like she's gonna come with some sort of problems.
Reply:wow...she is confusing. I am a girl myself so i have a few ideas why shes doing that. I have a lot of guy friends that i IM and one time, this guy thought i liked him, so he asked me out. When i said no, he flipped out, and sent me mean txts and stuff. So maybe this girl just wants to be friends...but i would definitely ask her....good luck
Reply:I'm confuse here my self! Ask her why she is making things so confussing here! I don't know whats going on here! There are mixed signals here! She sounds like a tease to me! Talk to her and see whats going on here! Best of Luck!
Reply:Chicks!! they are all so confusing. I wouldn't worry about it, she obviously likes you. She's just taking it slow. Let her take the lead and follow along. Things will work themselves out.
Reply:she's probably confused about what she wants..
next time you see her, tell her that you kinda like her but are confused because of how she's acting..ask her if she wants to be friends or if she wants to get to know you..
Reply:Female game player--it's rare that they are this good. You could have a lot of fun with her. Keep talking to her and make sure you stand up for yourself--don't go along with everything she suggests. It will take you a while to win her respect, but when you do, a relationship with her could be really intense. (And if she ever stands you up, tell her it was no problem--and give her a story about the great time you had instead. This is all a power play--hot then cold--don't let her tricks work on you, but don't start messing with her back. Just act like you enjoy being with her, but you don't need her--you are having a great life without her.) She'll either get bored and move on, or decide that you are actually man enough for her and she'll stop the games and start to get real.
If it doesn't work out, the experience will be valuable. You shouldn't stop looking for a girlfriend (don't wait on her!), but don't go running away either.
Reply:Wow, I'm so sorry to hear of your dilemma. These situations are what at times give ladies a bad reputation.
It sounds to me like this girl doesn't know what she wants, and is playing mind games with you. She can't make up her mind and she's running hot and cold.
The question is, how do you feel about her, and her current behavior? Do you like her enough to give it a go and put up with her games?
If so, be honest with her. Direct is always the best policy. Tell her that you are interested in pursuing something but aren't making sense of her mixed signals. If she is worth anything, she will stop behaving the way she is and be more respectful towards your feelings.
If you don't think it's worth pursuing, it may sound cruel, but a clean break might be the best idea. Change your gym (or go when you know she won't be there). Ignore her e-mails, texts, IM's and social networking invitations. It may take time for her to get the message (some people are dense) but she should eventually take the hint.
Good luck to you. :-)
Reply:Dude, i will say stay away from her and make yourself difficult to get for her. Looks like she wants you at her convenience. The more you get involved with someone who is confused, the more complicated the life gets and you spend the rest of your life trying to solve the mystery. Treat her like just your normal friend. You will find things fall in place automatically and you will be very happy. Dont make yourself available easily and always. Hope this helps. You are just 20. If not this, there are other hot cute girls out there. Dont worry. Chill and enjoy life.
Reply:yea she just messing with u and not intrested in u she kinda just looking for a buddy or just a little flirty thing or she just wants someone to hang with when she out in the open and really just playing with u or playing hard to get us woman are complicated so just ask her stright out or she will keep playing games with you.
Reply:i dont know what you do when you say when you make a move, but she sounds nice and cus she aint so easy, this might mean that she wants to build a relationship wid her. Just go out wid her take to some sik places see what happens. You got nuttin to lose. Just flirt wid her and see what she does. If she flirts bak obiously dis is a good sign
Reply:Wow.. that is weird. Is it because in the times that you tried to approach her, she was with other friends or other people and she was too embarassed to show others that she and you like eachother? Because she's afraid of others making fun of you both? and in the gym, maybe she approached you because she saw that none of her friends/classmates were there. Just be patient. If she doesn't like it when you approach her, then just let her approach you. Good luck!
Reply:It sounds like she is just playing games with you. Or maybe she doesn't know weather or not she likes you like that yet. Just ask her why she is acting like this and what is up.
Reply:she just wants to feel better knowing yer chasing her
dont
she doesnt care abt you
this hapopens to me all the time
so i asked some girls i know why they do this
and they say becuase its fun to see how many guys will get yer #... its like a contest to see how many guys are calling htem
stop calling her, shes a bore
dental plans
I like this girl, but she is soooooo confusing, what do you think?
i'm a 20 year old guy,There's this girl, i knew back in grammar school, but didnt actually know her, jus knew who she was, hadnt seen her in a long time. i saw her at the gym bout a month ago and we started talkin. for the next 3 days, she constantly IMed me, left me facebok comments, said she wanted to hang out, and gave me her number witout me even asking for it. We hang out, i try to make a move on her and she backs off. So now everytime i try to talk to her she jus says she has to go right away or jus doesnt answer, so i apologized for makin her feel uncomfortable and she said its fine. SO i saw her at the gym a week ago for the first time since we hung out. As soon as she sees me she asks me to go on the treadmill with her, then asks me if i wanna workout abs and legs wit her, etc etc. And she was going wherever i was going at the gym. anddd even asked me to go to a %26amp; p with her loll. but ever since then she hasnt contacted me once. im jus confused cause she sendin mixed signals
I like this girl, but she is soooooo confusing, what do you think?
be gentleman,,ask her out ( then you'll find out how she feel about you ) good luck!!
I like this girl, but she is soooooo confusing, what do you think?
be gentleman,,ask her out ( then you'll find out how she feel about you ) good luck!!
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